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Genealogy

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For as long as I can remember I have had many interests. I think that's often the experience of many Autistic women. I kind of go from one 'favourite interest' to the next.

One of my main interests as an adult and which I have had such passion for is 'Genealogy'. I can still remember the elation which I felt when I started to read my first book on the subject. It was a thin book but packed with information and I just knew this would be a passtime that I would really enjoy.

I started researching my ancestry in the early 90's and at that time it was less expensive to get information from the various record sources. I did such a lot of research before even approaching any of the British record offices and I think that is why I have found so much interesting information. Years later I could corroborate what I have found against the records of births, marriages and deaths in both the Scottish and English records.

One of the most enjoyable things about this hobby for me has been visting various places where my ancestors lived. Many of them lived in the big cities of Scotland and England as well as abroad.

The only thing which isn't so good is when it comes to meeting new found relatives. I find that having Aspergers just makes be so nervous that I don't really want to meet them when it comes to the point. I just imagine they will think I am too strange or that trying to talk to them, whilst remembering information will make me appear really stupid. Two years ago I visited someon relatives in Kent where my Grandmother came from. I had my elderly Auntie with me which was nice as otherwise I doubt I would have met up with the people. They turned out to be lovely and down to earth which I was so pleased about but there was still that feeling of trying to communicate with complete strangers.

In a few weeks I will meet someone else who is related to me and I am very nervous. I just hope my Auntie will be able to come with me but I'm not sure if she will.

I love this hobby and think it as an activity where Autistic people can excel.

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  • I have just joined the community. I love reading all your comments on this. I very much enjoy researching my geneolgy also. I have got back to the 1550's on some. I love finding photographs, and then I look for family resemblance, though I miight or might not be right about it. My Great-great grandfather is in the Jersey Archives (1889),and I have a copy of that, in fact I've done quite well with my Jersey crowd on pictures, I think they had more money than my others, where many worked as agricultural labourers, and did'nt tend to have their pictures taken. Though one husband of a second cousin was a gravedigger in Kent, 1920's and got his family pictured in a local paper of the time as everybody knew him! Haven't met any living relatives, I would find that very difficult, but I am interested in how the different branches of families have developed through to  the present day.

    Just before I finish, I would just like to pick up what a couple of you wrote about uncovering scandal. I am so pleased that your living relatives took it well. I admit to having not put the illegitimacy I found onto my public Ancestry tree. I know it would have greatly upset my late sister and father. They were very proud of the paternity they believed in, and which I found was uncertain - possible but uncertain. The paternity was very humble, but they were very attached to it! Personally I find the variation interesting. I had a grandmother from Kent too, for the person who said that - Goudhurst near Cranbrook it was. Fascinating to get a book with picture in. Au Revoir

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  • I have just joined the community. I love reading all your comments on this. I very much enjoy researching my geneolgy also. I have got back to the 1550's on some. I love finding photographs, and then I look for family resemblance, though I miight or might not be right about it. My Great-great grandfather is in the Jersey Archives (1889),and I have a copy of that, in fact I've done quite well with my Jersey crowd on pictures, I think they had more money than my others, where many worked as agricultural labourers, and did'nt tend to have their pictures taken. Though one husband of a second cousin was a gravedigger in Kent, 1920's and got his family pictured in a local paper of the time as everybody knew him! Haven't met any living relatives, I would find that very difficult, but I am interested in how the different branches of families have developed through to  the present day.

    Just before I finish, I would just like to pick up what a couple of you wrote about uncovering scandal. I am so pleased that your living relatives took it well. I admit to having not put the illegitimacy I found onto my public Ancestry tree. I know it would have greatly upset my late sister and father. They were very proud of the paternity they believed in, and which I found was uncertain - possible but uncertain. The paternity was very humble, but they were very attached to it! Personally I find the variation interesting. I had a grandmother from Kent too, for the person who said that - Goudhurst near Cranbrook it was. Fascinating to get a book with picture in. Au Revoir

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