Genealogy

For as long as I can remember I have had many interests. I think that's often the experience of many Autistic women. I kind of go from one 'favourite interest' to the next.

One of my main interests as an adult and which I have had such passion for is 'Genealogy'. I can still remember the elation which I felt when I started to read my first book on the subject. It was a thin book but packed with information and I just knew this would be a passtime that I would really enjoy.

I started researching my ancestry in the early 90's and at that time it was less expensive to get information from the various record sources. I did such a lot of research before even approaching any of the British record offices and I think that is why I have found so much interesting information. Years later I could corroborate what I have found against the records of births, marriages and deaths in both the Scottish and English records.

One of the most enjoyable things about this hobby for me has been visting various places where my ancestors lived. Many of them lived in the big cities of Scotland and England as well as abroad.

The only thing which isn't so good is when it comes to meeting new found relatives. I find that having Aspergers just makes be so nervous that I don't really want to meet them when it comes to the point. I just imagine they will think I am too strange or that trying to talk to them, whilst remembering information will make me appear really stupid. Two years ago I visited someon relatives in Kent where my Grandmother came from. I had my elderly Auntie with me which was nice as otherwise I doubt I would have met up with the people. They turned out to be lovely and down to earth which I was so pleased about but there was still that feeling of trying to communicate with complete strangers.

In a few weeks I will meet someone else who is related to me and I am very nervous. I just hope my Auntie will be able to come with me but I'm not sure if she will.

I love this hobby and think it as an activity where Autistic people can excel.

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  • I've been interested in genealogy for several years now. I'm not entirely sure what started my interest, but I suppose it may have come from several sources. The main of which is that both my grandfather and grandmother come from different countries and I've wanted to trace both sides of my family to find out more about my ancestors.

    I went onto GenesReunited and later Ancestry.co.uk and I found out about my grandfather's side of the family. I went back to his grandfather on his father's side, a farm labourer who lived in Cherhill. I stumbled across an online message in archives on Ancestry about this book called 'The Manor and Village of Cherhill', the village where my third great grandfather lived. They actually wrote the names of both my third great grandfather and his wife. I was astonished at this discovery and vowed that I must get a hold of this book. My mother, aunt and I went to our local library to request a copy of the book to read for ourselves. When we looked at the book, it took awhile to search through it. Then we noticed this couple in front of a brick cottage, and underneath were the names of my ancestors. When I saw that, I was taken aback, here was a photo of two of my ancestors I've never seen in a picture before. It was incredible, and it made me wish I could have shown my grandfather before he died. It was such a priceless moment seeing that photo, as I'm sure that it must have been difficult to get a photograph taken of yourself in the 1800's when you were just a farmer labourer.

    I was not able to check further down my ancestry line since neither my mother nor I can drive, and find travel difficult, but through the websites I was connected to, I could find out what other people had discovered. Through that I could travel back to the 1700s, and find out their names. I could also discover through further research some interesting stories via people's names and where they were in census documents and marriage records.

    However; on my father's side I had a lot more difficulty. My father's surname is quite common and because of this it made searching for his family tree all the more difficult. I was able to search some of his history, but one particular avenue carried a lot of interest. On his father's mother's side, through other people's family trees, I traced the line all the way back to an ancestor that arrived from Belgium. I have three different countries in my ancestry, and I found that very interesting.

    As for my grandmother's family history, I was not able to find out about it myself since she came from Germany and we now know from writing to a relative that it appears that the Europeans' were not so interested in family history and you can only find out about it visiting local parishes and towns in Europe. A family member which I got into contact with after my grandmother unfortunately died, had shown me the names, births and deaths of my foreign ancestors, and that was just as interesting. My grandmother was part of a big family of twelve children, and I knew a little about my great grandfather and grandmother from my grandmother. She always told my mother and I about how stressful it was for her father who had to work in the salt mines and come back to work in the allotments to grow vegetables, and how my grandmother was so strict with them over how clean everything should be. There were comments about how clean her linen was from neighbours, and from the stories I've heard, I could swear that she had a severe case of OCD. Still, it's interesting to put names to these ancestors I've heard about, have known most of their names, but not further into my grandmother's family history.

    I've not met my distant family relatives. Through my mother, we were in contact with someone via GenesReunited that lived in Canada, but we slipped out of contact, >.<;. As for my grandmother's side of the family, well, I'm still in contact with my family relative that gave me the information about her side of the family. I can understand your difficulty with meeting distant family relatives, if I were able to, I would have just as much difficulty myself.

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  • I've been interested in genealogy for several years now. I'm not entirely sure what started my interest, but I suppose it may have come from several sources. The main of which is that both my grandfather and grandmother come from different countries and I've wanted to trace both sides of my family to find out more about my ancestors.

    I went onto GenesReunited and later Ancestry.co.uk and I found out about my grandfather's side of the family. I went back to his grandfather on his father's side, a farm labourer who lived in Cherhill. I stumbled across an online message in archives on Ancestry about this book called 'The Manor and Village of Cherhill', the village where my third great grandfather lived. They actually wrote the names of both my third great grandfather and his wife. I was astonished at this discovery and vowed that I must get a hold of this book. My mother, aunt and I went to our local library to request a copy of the book to read for ourselves. When we looked at the book, it took awhile to search through it. Then we noticed this couple in front of a brick cottage, and underneath were the names of my ancestors. When I saw that, I was taken aback, here was a photo of two of my ancestors I've never seen in a picture before. It was incredible, and it made me wish I could have shown my grandfather before he died. It was such a priceless moment seeing that photo, as I'm sure that it must have been difficult to get a photograph taken of yourself in the 1800's when you were just a farmer labourer.

    I was not able to check further down my ancestry line since neither my mother nor I can drive, and find travel difficult, but through the websites I was connected to, I could find out what other people had discovered. Through that I could travel back to the 1700s, and find out their names. I could also discover through further research some interesting stories via people's names and where they were in census documents and marriage records.

    However; on my father's side I had a lot more difficulty. My father's surname is quite common and because of this it made searching for his family tree all the more difficult. I was able to search some of his history, but one particular avenue carried a lot of interest. On his father's mother's side, through other people's family trees, I traced the line all the way back to an ancestor that arrived from Belgium. I have three different countries in my ancestry, and I found that very interesting.

    As for my grandmother's family history, I was not able to find out about it myself since she came from Germany and we now know from writing to a relative that it appears that the Europeans' were not so interested in family history and you can only find out about it visiting local parishes and towns in Europe. A family member which I got into contact with after my grandmother unfortunately died, had shown me the names, births and deaths of my foreign ancestors, and that was just as interesting. My grandmother was part of a big family of twelve children, and I knew a little about my great grandfather and grandmother from my grandmother. She always told my mother and I about how stressful it was for her father who had to work in the salt mines and come back to work in the allotments to grow vegetables, and how my grandmother was so strict with them over how clean everything should be. There were comments about how clean her linen was from neighbours, and from the stories I've heard, I could swear that she had a severe case of OCD. Still, it's interesting to put names to these ancestors I've heard about, have known most of their names, but not further into my grandmother's family history.

    I've not met my distant family relatives. Through my mother, we were in contact with someone via GenesReunited that lived in Canada, but we slipped out of contact, >.<;. As for my grandmother's side of the family, well, I'm still in contact with my family relative that gave me the information about her side of the family. I can understand your difficulty with meeting distant family relatives, if I were able to, I would have just as much difficulty myself.

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