Tribunal advice

Hi there, 1st time poster long time reader. I wont go into too much detail about my case, im just after some basic advice regarding an issue I have.

I have an upcoming employment tribunal, we are representing ourselves, and until recently I didnt realise that id have to read out my statement in person. The issue with this is that I have aspergers and a stutter, and struggle with ANYTHING social, even the school run, so how the hell am I supposed to stand up infront of a judge, and the people who sacked me, and read out a statement that took us 14 hours to put together. Its really long and will take me at least an hour to read. I keep myself to myself in life, always have, I only interect when I absolutely have too. I havent slept for a few weeks, and with a few weeks to go ive no idea what state im going to be in come the days for the hearing. Its a 2 day hearing and doubt ill sleep for about 4 days, the day before the 2 days and the day after. I struggle to sleep as it is, and im going to be a complete wreck.

Is there anything I can do to prevent me having to read this out?

Also to a lesser extent im worried about being cross examined as my brain works a little differently to normal people and I can just come out with anything at times to tell people what they want to hear. My condition is involved directly to my case and evidence, though 99% of people who know what I have, have no clue what it is and how it affects me, I often feel no one knows exactly what I go through on a daily basis, even fellow aspies, as every one has completely different symptoms, or percentages of symptoms.

Cheers people, feel free to PM me or drop any advice on here

Kindest regards

  • hi , can I ask which region you are located in? David 

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    Who else is involved in the case? You said "we are representing ourselves"?

  • Hello EmotionalMastery,

    I'm sorry but I cannot give any advice but I think I understand what you mean when you say that you cannot read out your statement.

    I have been in several similar situations and I've been unable to go through with them. I am struggling with something very similar right now. The cross examination thing really floors me as I need time to process questions and produce an answer which is my own honest opinion and not just a guess at something that people want to hear - my brain also works a little differently!

    I have spoken to many organisations/helplines over the last few years (NAS included) and I've found that all of the advice is aimed at people who are able to speak for themselves. For example, the advice given to parents of children with autism depends on the parent/s being able to carry out and access the advice/services given and does not account for parents who are not in a position to do this. I often get asked that horrible question - "what would you like me/us to do?" and much as I know what I'm asking for, I am totally unable to explain it.

    More recently I've learned to point out that I am not able to communicate my needs - to be told that I cannot be helped until I find a way to speak for myself - this was from my local advocacy service......!

    It is very frustrating. Wink