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Dating sites

Laddo

I've been feeling kinda lonely romantically lately a few months after coming out of an abusive relationship and don't really want to/am no good at "dating" the way NT people do it. The solution, naturally, seems to be dating sites. The trouble is, there are thousands of these sites around and I'm having trouble filtering the good ones from the bad ones, and especially finding sites that may be a bit more accommodating to a fairly shy bloke with Aspergers. Has anyone on here got any success stories from dating sites? If so, which site(s) did you use and how long did it take to find lurrrrrve?

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  • Yes, I've experienced a lot of repetition in dating websites myself, some of them looked like clones of another, >.<;. People are far too judgemental, I totally agree with you. I'm absolutely certain that is one of the main reasons why I had no success, -_-. I've never been one to alter my profile to match others, I've been more one to alter my profile to show more of myself, because I want to stay true to myself. I don't want to alter my profile to 'fit in' with the other people because I want to find a place where I feel comfortable. To me, feeling comfortable is most important because I'd be around people I feel a little more confident with, I wouldn't want to be around people who judge us because of what we look like or what we say, because they could just as easily judge us because of our conditions, >.<;.

    Anyway, thank you very much for the link to the Natural Friends website, I didn't notice that myself in the past, so I'll certainly give it a try, Smile.

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  • Yes, I've experienced a lot of repetition in dating websites myself, some of them looked like clones of another, >.<;. People are far too judgemental, I totally agree with you. I'm absolutely certain that is one of the main reasons why I had no success, -_-. I've never been one to alter my profile to match others, I've been more one to alter my profile to show more of myself, because I want to stay true to myself. I don't want to alter my profile to 'fit in' with the other people because I want to find a place where I feel comfortable. To me, feeling comfortable is most important because I'd be around people I feel a little more confident with, I wouldn't want to be around people who judge us because of what we look like or what we say, because they could just as easily judge us because of our conditions, >.<;.

    Anyway, thank you very much for the link to the Natural Friends website, I didn't notice that myself in the past, so I'll certainly give it a try, Smile.

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