Dolly Parton legacy - what would you like to leave in the world?

I enjoyed many Dolly Parton songs, which are very life-affirming. I had no idea until I read her obituary on BBC News that Dolly was a huge philanthropist. We do not all have such talent and riches with which to do good but there are other ways of leaving a durable legacy. Unless you believe in resurrection, what we leave of ourselves is the good we did in the world. It is how others remember us. My most-missed friend was Sylvia [RIP] who was 92 when she died. I visited her Quaker meeting house a decade after her death and she was still fondly remembered for her kindness and giving time to others. To me, that is immortality. You don't need to be rich or famous to make a difference.

Myself, I've created gardens in the many houses I've lived in [mainly social housing] and also improved the property. Whoever comes after can enjoy these things. I've also written about my specialist subjects, leaving behind knowledge I hope will be useful,

What would you hope to leave by way of legacy, to the community and wider world {other than goods or money}? Is there anyting you can do toward this goal? I think this is an important question and has a large bearing on how you perceive yourself, your gifts and skills and your 'fit' in the community - without necessarily being a physical part of  social life.

  • I was wondering if a Dolly thread would materialise here. I'm not a huge fan of her music apart from the excellent number Jolene but I really liked her as a person. She did so much with no fanfare. As for my legacy, I intend to leave no trace, I have no interest in leaving a legacy. If anybody remembers me kindly it is a bonus but not something I aspire to. You come with nothing, you leave with nothing, what have you lost? Nothing

  • What would you hope to leave by way of legacy, to the community and wider world

    I have mentored and coached many staff in my long career in IT and helped many pursue something they really wanted to do, whether that be in the IT field or elsewhere.

    Helping people make the most of themselves and achieve things they are afraid to grab hold of builds their confidence in themselves and helps them live better lives - that is the legacy I want.

    I keep in touch with a few people who made a success of their plans and it is always heartwarming to hear how happy they are now. I don't do it for the praise but to help others avoid the mistakes that so many make in just settling for what life gives them. 

  • I've saved lives, lots and lots of lives. My legacy is that others get to live and leave theirs. To me, personally, anything other than that is superficial. 

  • Because of her both of my daughters received free children’s books for years.

    She had a great influence here, too:

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp80mzl24ylo?utm_source=firefox-newtab-en-gb

  • I would like to have helped some insect species survive by my planting etc and some hand rearing of butterflies. 

    Bees in particular are essential to mankind but insects are an essential part of the food chain for many species.

    Also imparting any knowledge to others, especially the young.

    Good thread Green heart

  • Dolly was a MASSIVE philanthropist. Because of her both of my daughters received free children’s books for years. She also basically single-handedly saved the region around her hometown after a massive forest fire not long ago. Honestly? I know her more as a philanthropist than a singer/songwriter. She was a towering, benevolent figure in America.

    If I leave a legacy - which honestly I’d rather be completely forgotten, but I recognize that’s the depression talking - I hope someone will be inspired by the books and music I leave behind. Even if it’s just my own children. That would be nice for them to have more of a purpose than just for my own self-enjoyment.