Hi,
I was over 40 and married for over 20 years before my wife finally connected the dots and we worked out I have autism. We seemed to manage for the most part, but during the last few years things got tougher and tougher and my wife couldn't handle things as they were.
One thing that I always struggled with was taking things too literally and not catching the deeper meaning in my conversations, and finding solutions for this has been difficult but has made a difference. I found ChatGPT helped a bit, but I after talking with a developer friend of mine he put the below together. It works pretty well for me, and maybe for other too.
decode-conversations.lovable.app/
