Music

I constantly have music playing somewhere and over the years I come to realise how much it ties me to certain aspects of my life.

We all have that song that we link to a relationship or an event that brings added meaning.

Iris by the Goo goo dolls reminds me of my relationship with my wife in a moment when things were less complex. This song has lived rent free in my head since 1998. It also in more recent years become a song about how I feel about myself And I don't want the world to see me / 'Cause I don't think that they'd understand / When everything's made to be broken / I just want you to know who I am

Creep by radiohead or Growing sideways by Noah Kahn also fit that bill.

American pie (Don Mclean and I don't want to miss a thing (Areosmith) we songs I used to sing to the kids when they were tiny.

There are songs that just creep up on my and I end up in tears, they might not have any great meaning, they just invoke a wave of emotions. Some are pretty obvious, something like Fight song by Rachel Platten which is so positive but has undertones of loss.

The other day I was listening to a random playlist and Lose yourself by Eminem came on and it just triggered something, it was the same where a video cropped up on Facebook, it was a Ministry of sound concert at the royal Albert hall, they played Toccata & Fugue in D Minor (Bach) that merge in Insomnia (Faithless), it just gave me goosebumps and then I just became overwhelmed.

I'd love to know that you all have the same relationship with music and would be willing to share your experiences.

Or am I just weird?

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  • I don't remember an awful lot of my childhood but I do recall that music was very rarely played. My dad had LPs of the Beatles and the Rolling Stones as well as comedy ones by Billy Connolly. It wasn't until I was in my early teens that I developed this love for music. This was the early 80s so music by the  likes of Peter Gabriel, Howard Jones, New Order were ever present. Watching Whistle test re-runs introduced me to Led Zeppelin, Joy Division and so many more. Music just seems to connect me emotionally to the world and has a massive effect on my emotional wellbeing.

  • They will? Are you sure? Are there no other musical influences allowed?

    When I was younger, it was always are you into the Stones or the Beatles, I was into neither.