Tinder

I keep downloading and then deleting Tinder.

i keep making a full profile, really good profile, amazing pictures, great bio, jokes, and everything.

and also I look clean and handsome.

but the thing is, i have never gotten a single like. Like I say, I don’t have the app for a long time at all, before deleting it, maybe only 30 minutes tops, is the record.

so is that why I have never gotten a single like?

the app also seems quite broken, and customer support for tinder is useless.

i am very selective too, i only swipe right on a small amount of women.

Anyone have any advice? And also, it’s usually in the very early morning, or late at night when I do this.

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  • so is that why I have never gotten a single like?
    I don’t have the app for a long time at all, before deleting it, maybe only 30 minutes tops, is the record.

    I think you just answered your own question - it takes time for people to see your profile and to like it. I would recommend leaving it up for at least a week and see what sort of results you get.

    Dating apps also will not prioritise your profile from being seen by others unless you are paying for one of their premium packages, so if you are serious then this is something worth paying for. I used the Gold membership when I signed up and I got about one like a day on average over a month.

    Note that you need to have clicked Like on someone and they then click Like back on your profile for it to show up as a match. If you have the premium packages than you can see the list of people who have clicked Like on you and this narrows down the list to help you spend your time more productively. It all takes time.

    i am very selective too, i only swipe right on a small amount of women.

    From what I have read about dating apps, the amount of men Liked by women is very small - they are even more select than most men so you need to be Liking lots of women to even have a chance of one Liking you statistically.

    If you live out in the sticks or on a small town then this means you are likely to not have many potential partners within a set distance so you won't appear on their lists if they have a distance filter set. You may need to be even more patient in this situation.

    As for advice, get your profile up and online and wait - it may take weeks depending on your distance / desirability / profile but with patience you should find someone.

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  • so is that why I have never gotten a single like?
    I don’t have the app for a long time at all, before deleting it, maybe only 30 minutes tops, is the record.

    I think you just answered your own question - it takes time for people to see your profile and to like it. I would recommend leaving it up for at least a week and see what sort of results you get.

    Dating apps also will not prioritise your profile from being seen by others unless you are paying for one of their premium packages, so if you are serious then this is something worth paying for. I used the Gold membership when I signed up and I got about one like a day on average over a month.

    Note that you need to have clicked Like on someone and they then click Like back on your profile for it to show up as a match. If you have the premium packages than you can see the list of people who have clicked Like on you and this narrows down the list to help you spend your time more productively. It all takes time.

    i am very selective too, i only swipe right on a small amount of women.

    From what I have read about dating apps, the amount of men Liked by women is very small - they are even more select than most men so you need to be Liking lots of women to even have a chance of one Liking you statistically.

    If you live out in the sticks or on a small town then this means you are likely to not have many potential partners within a set distance so you won't appear on their lists if they have a distance filter set. You may need to be even more patient in this situation.

    As for advice, get your profile up and online and wait - it may take weeks depending on your distance / desirability / profile but with patience you should find someone.

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