Older people - what career would you have pursued, if you had support, money and resources?

I had this idea following TheCatWoman's question about career v job. Older people  might feel poignant about a past lost in the mists of Time. Regret is human but can be destructive. It can also lead to enlightening insights. I think of my working life as a string of pearls rather than a single diamond solitaire. It was not the job alone, but people I worked with, homes I had during each period and what I learned about myself as a result. What are your experiences? 

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  • I wonder how many of us were unsupported and never knew what options were available?

    I think for many of us older people we were held back by gender and class.

  • In my case it was lack of understanding of autism and likely ADHD that held me back. Although I also received daily misogynistic messages that usually contained a “women are useless “ comment in them somewhere. Being told you are lazy and that a parent is “slaving away to keep me … “ didn’t help. Perhaps I would have been a late developer anyway, who knows? We can change only how we are in the present (positive message to self).

  • I think I would still be in a similar situation due to my inability to do maths, tech and art. Back in the day you needed an art O level to do hairdressing, a maths O level to work in a shop as you had to add everything up in your head before ringing it into the till. 

  • Aww, that’s a pity. I thought you had censored yourself. So posts get edited without a moderator  acting? 

    Writing books is hard work

    What sort of manuals do you write? I hope you aren’t the author of the ‘Dummies’ books after my less than complementary remark. 

  • I didn’t like the surgeon hovering so closely above my face either. After the surgeon had finished, a nurse was doing something over me while I was still lying down. She was chewing gum and I could see behind her front teeth. Yuck! Not professional!

  • I can't remember the word I used but for some reason they '***' 'it!! Also, I drew a diagram in powerapoint, converted it to a jpeg, but for some reason this too has gone to the administrator. It's like being in the naughty corner at school andnot knowing why Thinking

    I already write manuals and have done so for 20 years. Aching arms and ageing mean I prefer to potter around these days. Writing books is hard work, even when you love writing.

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  • I can't remember the word I used but for some reason they '***' 'it!! Also, I drew a diagram in powerapoint, converted it to a jpeg, but for some reason this too has gone to the administrator. It's like being in the naughty corner at school andnot knowing why Thinking

    I already write manuals and have done so for 20 years. Aching arms and ageing mean I prefer to potter around these days. Writing books is hard work, even when you love writing.

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