Humour and Interpretation

I am aware that communication issues tend to be a common problem for autists. Having been a member of this online community since 2022, I have witnessed plenty of misunderstandings and spats.

Earlier, I read a post on the forums that had caused me some amusement. My interpretation was that it wasn't intended to be a serious post. I felt compelled to respond, but part-way through typing my response, I started to have doubts.

Whilst typing my response, I realised that in addition to the post being in the Health & Wellbeing section, the member had used several tags that suggested their post was actually intended to be taken seriously.

I was faced with the dilemma of whether to post my response, or to completely abort. I chose to continue, but now I'm thinking that maybe it would have been better to abort.

For me, I consider humour and laughter to be essential to health and wellbeing. However, I'm also aware that there's a time and a place.

I'm curious to know if other members have found themselves in similar situations?

On one hand, I feel like this is the one place where I should be able to ditch the mask and be myself. On the other hand, I'm well aware of the need to be careful, as the last thing I want is to say something in jest that causes offence and/or distress to another member.

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  • I have a very dark sense of humor, I like dark comedy. You might have seen those AI Stephen Hawking videos doing the rounds where he’s getting beaten up in a boxing ring or being power slammed by a wrestler, I was crying with laughter cause it was so funny…but I get not everybody likes my sense of humor so I won’t put it on people unless I know that’s what they like. Luckily my close friends do enjoy it, so that’s where my humor pretty much stays. 

  • Unless one shares links to the likes of YouTube videos, it's impossible to use that particular style of dark humour here. It's probably wise not to share that particular style of humour with people unless you know them well.

    In hindsight, I should have made it clearer in my original post that I was referring to text-based posts and comments here in the NAS online community. 

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  • Unless one shares links to the likes of YouTube videos, it's impossible to use that particular style of dark humour here. It's probably wise not to share that particular style of humour with people unless you know them well.

    In hindsight, I should have made it clearer in my original post that I was referring to text-based posts and comments here in the NAS online community. 

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