Recently diagnosed with Autism at 67

Me:

67 year old male.  Married with two grown children.  Retired for 5 years.

History:

I studied at university and have a post graduate degree.  I was a better than average student.  After graduation I worked for the same company for 40 years.  My career was successful but not outstanding.  Later on I was pigeon holed into roles that involved problem solving.  The company leveraged my talent for problem solving but, always chastised for not being a team player.  But hey I survived 40 years.

As a child I was always bullied and made fun of because I was different.  I preferred talking with adults.  In high school I was called nerd / geek.  That didn't bother me.  I just hung out with other nerds.  I could always make presentations to important people without any stress.  I even made a presentation to a CEO of a large company at the age of 15.  How did I do that?  I created a character that excelled in public.  Just like I created a character that could survive social situations (parties).

I was flabbergasted when I received the diagnosis.  I always believed the Autism stigmas.  How could I survive 67 years and then be given this diagnosis?

Parents
  • Hi and welcome 

    Wow, this must so hard for you to process.

    I am recently diagnosed too, at 55 with autism and ADHD. I didn't really have a clue. My therapist suggested possible ADHD.

    I am so glad I pursued a diagnosis.

    My son who is 25 is now taking steps to help himself after looking into the signs of ADHD since my diagnosis. He has just bought a book called CBT for ADHD. So if nothing else comes from my diagnosis, it will have been worth it to help the next generation.

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  • Hi and welcome 

    Wow, this must so hard for you to process.

    I am recently diagnosed too, at 55 with autism and ADHD. I didn't really have a clue. My therapist suggested possible ADHD.

    I am so glad I pursued a diagnosis.

    My son who is 25 is now taking steps to help himself after looking into the signs of ADHD since my diagnosis. He has just bought a book called CBT for ADHD. So if nothing else comes from my diagnosis, it will have been worth it to help the next generation.

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