Published on 12, July, 2020
Being autistic means it’s virtually impossible for me to relax, but I still love going on holiday. I can’t take a break from my own brain, though I can at least enjoy being somewhere beautiful and trying new things (who said autistic people don’t like change?) In my latest Autistic Not Alien video, I reflect on past holidays and how being autistic has shaped my appreciation of places and people. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gw4e16sK7wE
What do you most enjoy about holidays from an autistic perspective?
Autistic Not Alien said:I can’t take a break from my own brain
What have you tried to calm your mind?
Mindfulness, meditation, drugs?
Autistic Not Alien said:What do you most enjoy about holidays from an autistic perspective?
I enjoy being "normal" as much as possible on holiday - taking a break from the routines and constraints I tend to put on myself at home.
My autism tends to spoil aspects through making me over-plan, worry about what may go wrong, getting overloaded from too much new stimuli, losing my routine and comfort zones and lastly the unfamiliarity of a hotel bed and bathroom.
I'm sad to say that drinking alcohol is the main way that I calm my mind. I also over-plan and worry - my wife is regularly bemused by how stressed I get about very minor things.