New Year's Day

Hello everyone.

I would like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a happy new year, now that the year 2014 has started. However, as an autistic person, I would expect to be faced with new and potentially difficult challenges. I am currently in paid employment, but for how much longer I don't know. My local bus and train services, as in timetables, ticket prices etc, could change at any time. If the weather conditions from the past few weeks is anything to go by, it could get wetter, windier or more stormy at any time, even when I least expect it. If I am facing any kind of uncertainty myself, I'm sure there's a few other autistic people in a similar situation.

Speaking of the weather, the past few weeks has seen some very heavy rain and storm force winds. I have heard that a care home in Hampshire, which I believe cares for elderly residents, has gone several days without heating. The residents have had to spend Christmas Day of 2013 in bed, just to keep warm. Can you imagine how terrible the situation would be if that care home cared for autistic people? It would really be an absolute nightmare, with no heating, no electricity, and no public transport service either, with all that debris on the roads, railway tracks etc. I feel so sorry for anyone whose Christmas and New Year plans were so severely disrupted by the weather. One storm is bad enough, but three or four within weeks of each other is terrible.

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  • happy newyear to you too, my daughter (8)really struggles with newyear and Christmas infact any kind of big holiday and yesterday I was really annoyed with the lack of understanding for children and adults on the spectrum.

    We have had quite a few party invitations over Xmas and newyear the last one was for a party with probably 25 people my daughters idea of hell, sensory overload, noise and meltdowns would be the start of it!

    Anyway despite explaining that no sorry we won't be coming as it's not fair on my daughter , i got reaction of oh she'll be fine or she can just play with the other kids!! I have explained numerous times about my daughter finding great difficulty in these situations but I'm amazed at the amount of people that claim to understand but don't, anyway to cut a long story short we had a very nice family christmas where my daughter could   relax and be herself.

    l

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  • happy newyear to you too, my daughter (8)really struggles with newyear and Christmas infact any kind of big holiday and yesterday I was really annoyed with the lack of understanding for children and adults on the spectrum.

    We have had quite a few party invitations over Xmas and newyear the last one was for a party with probably 25 people my daughters idea of hell, sensory overload, noise and meltdowns would be the start of it!

    Anyway despite explaining that no sorry we won't be coming as it's not fair on my daughter , i got reaction of oh she'll be fine or she can just play with the other kids!! I have explained numerous times about my daughter finding great difficulty in these situations but I'm amazed at the amount of people that claim to understand but don't, anyway to cut a long story short we had a very nice family christmas where my daughter could   relax and be herself.

    l

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