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Hi I don't know if I'm in the right place, my 7 year old has asperger and has become extreamly violent and she becoming stronger as she gross older, I have spoken to health professionals and have social services on my case as my daughter is violent to my young babies ( 1 and 2) they are blaming me for her behaviour and don't believe she has asperger even thou the specialist sent them a letter, She is very dangerous so have to keep eye on her 24/7 she stuck her tongue in a light socket when she was 6 because she hears voices and it told her if she done it she be able to fly :'( phycatrist has seen her 3 times due to her hearing voices and they say I need a parenting corse because my baby girl could sit and do a puzzle for 5 mins but wouldn't open up about voice just told them it goes in her ears. Anyone got any ideas how to stop her from hurting me so much as she frightens the little ones when she attacking me.. Also my 12 month old doesn't do eye contact and if she does it limited she likes slapping and screaming if someone she doesn't know walks past her or even looks at her she screams to the point I have to hold her but she hates being cuddled she rather be left alone to play by herself my health visitor said she won't be sending her for assessment as she not prepared to label her the same as her sister. Can she say that!?? Also she doesn't giggle much started to giggle at 9 months old any advice will be greatful x 

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  • Be careful.  If you agree, even if in sarcasm, they will record it behind your back.  I know from personal experience how they record absolute lies and twist things.

    Good luck at the Maudsley.  Once the dust has settled, ask your LA to have access to your daughter's social care records and if you find any lies in there, or false opinions, complain and cite the Data Protection Act 1998 which requires all organisations to keep accurate records.  Also ask them to amend or remove inaccuracies.  Otherwise that record will stay with your daughter/family and can rear it's head and cause problems later on.

    I swear, SW's must get training in fantasy writing.  The lack of autism awareness is shocking.

    Try filming your daughter surreptitiously next time and tell the SW that children only scream the place down in places they feel safe to do so, in which case the problem is not coming from her family.

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  • Be careful.  If you agree, even if in sarcasm, they will record it behind your back.  I know from personal experience how they record absolute lies and twist things.

    Good luck at the Maudsley.  Once the dust has settled, ask your LA to have access to your daughter's social care records and if you find any lies in there, or false opinions, complain and cite the Data Protection Act 1998 which requires all organisations to keep accurate records.  Also ask them to amend or remove inaccuracies.  Otherwise that record will stay with your daughter/family and can rear it's head and cause problems later on.

    I swear, SW's must get training in fantasy writing.  The lack of autism awareness is shocking.

    Try filming your daughter surreptitiously next time and tell the SW that children only scream the place down in places they feel safe to do so, in which case the problem is not coming from her family.

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