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Hi I don't know if I'm in the right place, my 7 year old has asperger and has become extreamly violent and she becoming stronger as she gross older, I have spoken to health professionals and have social services on my case as my daughter is violent to my young babies ( 1 and 2) they are blaming me for her behaviour and don't believe she has asperger even thou the specialist sent them a letter, She is very dangerous so have to keep eye on her 24/7 she stuck her tongue in a light socket when she was 6 because she hears voices and it told her if she done it she be able to fly :'( phycatrist has seen her 3 times due to her hearing voices and they say I need a parenting corse because my baby girl could sit and do a puzzle for 5 mins but wouldn't open up about voice just told them it goes in her ears. Anyone got any ideas how to stop her from hurting me so much as she frightens the little ones when she attacking me.. Also my 12 month old doesn't do eye contact and if she does it limited she likes slapping and screaming if someone she doesn't know walks past her or even looks at her she screams to the point I have to hold her but she hates being cuddled she rather be left alone to play by herself my health visitor said she won't be sending her for assessment as she not prepared to label her the same as her sister. Can she say that!?? Also she doesn't giggle much started to giggle at 9 months old any advice will be greatful x 

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  • i have videoed her violent out burts to show them what i get and they said i made her worse by filming her. they dont know anything about autisum, they say we do somehing to cause the triggers for her behaviour but my routen stays the same i dont change anything cause the effect it has on her, she is becoming violent towards her dad first time in 5 years so she is comfortable enough to do it now with him. i have an appointment with maudsley hosp in london to see one of the top phytriatric person. thats his month so hopefully they will help us as her lies will end up us getting into serious trouble. :( but i say let the social worker accuse she has no right to judge us and doesnt knw my daughter and doesnt know how much she minipulates us i just smile and say ok then if you say so lol.

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  • i have videoed her violent out burts to show them what i get and they said i made her worse by filming her. they dont know anything about autisum, they say we do somehing to cause the triggers for her behaviour but my routen stays the same i dont change anything cause the effect it has on her, she is becoming violent towards her dad first time in 5 years so she is comfortable enough to do it now with him. i have an appointment with maudsley hosp in london to see one of the top phytriatric person. thats his month so hopefully they will help us as her lies will end up us getting into serious trouble. :( but i say let the social worker accuse she has no right to judge us and doesnt knw my daughter and doesnt know how much she minipulates us i just smile and say ok then if you say so lol.

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