Talking about diagnosis with my daughter

My 19 year old daughter was diagnosed with asperger syndrome in June, this wasn't a surprise for me but it did appear to be for my daughter. Since then she has hardly spoken about it and when I try and bring the subject up she dismisses it. She suffers with anxiety and gets very depressed but won't consider that it maybe down to the aspergers. She also has a few other problems which again I know is down to the aspergers but she can't seem to see that it is. How can I get her to talk to me, I don't want to give her a complex but I know that if she got some help her life would be so much easier. I am very proud of her and just want her to be happy but until she discusses the diagnosis and accepts some help she will just keep going round in circles. I would apprieciate any help.