New pet

Hi,

Today I heartely visited the RSPCA and then had to be turned away because they were closed.

Having decided to buy a cat, I felt the need to really be secure in my decision.

I decided on a cat that was loving in return. Potential for some good adventures with my cat indoors for a few weeks. Fully ready.

Lots Of love

James

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  • Hi,

    oops-somehow my writting has gone into large font!

    Sorry to hear you had such a tough time- unfortunately it seem's people aren't as people type people/ sympathetic as they claim and can lead to all sorts of confusion. Plus some people haven't learn't people skills and so all sorts of communcation problems happen. Plus if they have self esteem issues,problems with transference,displacement,projection e.t.c then in an office environment,or anywhere in life, it can be a breeding ground for problems. Plus if people have chamelion like tendencies/personality types/mood swings e.t.c for somebody with aspergers it can be very confusing/stressful and make you ill.  i think alot of people with aspergers cope when people are consistent e.t.c, but with people being brought up with problems, it can be very tough. i think your right in finding people whom are kind and can relate to you,because they have struggled with challenges and so are more warming- i hope i can settle with better type people. having/or had a bad week and it's only tuesday- apologies for my font being large-no idea what button i've pressed!

    Couldn't voluteer at a hospice-they tend to pass away and with the elderly, i get chronic fatigue for a few days once in a while and with experience of my Nanna, she used to ask me to do alot and wouldn't stop nagging! So it would be too much like hard work.

    How are your pets lately? My cat is unwell and on medication, it's making him apathetic-so i worry. The rest of my pets are doing well-enjoying some fresh blue autumn weather.

    When you start a new thread, does your post state at the top view/edit all the time? I worry. When i post new threads, it posts it, but then stays stuck on- view/edit. I've looked at others new thread/ posts and theirs say ''post reply'' at the top of their new thread. Mine goes view/reply!It keeps happening to me-and i'm not sure why?

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  • Hi,

    oops-somehow my writting has gone into large font!

    Sorry to hear you had such a tough time- unfortunately it seem's people aren't as people type people/ sympathetic as they claim and can lead to all sorts of confusion. Plus some people haven't learn't people skills and so all sorts of communcation problems happen. Plus if they have self esteem issues,problems with transference,displacement,projection e.t.c then in an office environment,or anywhere in life, it can be a breeding ground for problems. Plus if people have chamelion like tendencies/personality types/mood swings e.t.c for somebody with aspergers it can be very confusing/stressful and make you ill.  i think alot of people with aspergers cope when people are consistent e.t.c, but with people being brought up with problems, it can be very tough. i think your right in finding people whom are kind and can relate to you,because they have struggled with challenges and so are more warming- i hope i can settle with better type people. having/or had a bad week and it's only tuesday- apologies for my font being large-no idea what button i've pressed!

    Couldn't voluteer at a hospice-they tend to pass away and with the elderly, i get chronic fatigue for a few days once in a while and with experience of my Nanna, she used to ask me to do alot and wouldn't stop nagging! So it would be too much like hard work.

    How are your pets lately? My cat is unwell and on medication, it's making him apathetic-so i worry. The rest of my pets are doing well-enjoying some fresh blue autumn weather.

    When you start a new thread, does your post state at the top view/edit all the time? I worry. When i post new threads, it posts it, but then stays stuck on- view/edit. I've looked at others new thread/ posts and theirs say ''post reply'' at the top of their new thread. Mine goes view/reply!It keeps happening to me-and i'm not sure why?

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