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Hi,

Thank-You. I don't have any choice but to run my own bussiness. I've tried working the conventional way, but it just makes me mentally and physically ill and therapy and relaxation therapies don't seem to make it any easier. So as beyond stressful and worrying as it is, i don't have any choice.

Sorry to hear you also know what it's like experiencing bullies- if it was emotional bullying, it can be one of the hardest things to explain to people, it can come out as thin air to the people you are telling, but that's why bullies emotionally bully, they know it can affect you, but know it's subtle enough to get away with doing it for longer. Is anybody at your work now emotionally bullying you?

My concern about working at an animal sanctuary e.t.c, is that i get so attatched, i feel like all animals are my family, that if one had to be euthanised, i would be heart broken. Either that or the manager would just put me on cleaning out duty-so not as rewarding as actually working with the animals. I have applied now to support dogs charity to put out collection tins and possibly be a bucket shaker and canine partners to do the same-but canine partners is done from head office in another part of the UK. So no opportunity to meet people, but i'd be out an about.And next week have an email task for a leading charity to do something supportive- can't say what though. But from home again.Have an email in my draft box waiting to send to the unsupportive vol work i applied for saying please can yo put my application on hold e.t.c  So still stuck how to meet people.

In my area,there is an aspergers children's support group and adults only meet once a month in an evening and they go bowling- but as i have no income, no benefits, it's a luxury i can't afford! I can't set up one myself as i only told my family and close frineds, that are old school friends,i have aspergers, but they now live elsewhere in the UK. They have some intelligence to get it, well some of them do. But i don't tell everybody because i have been emotionally bullied by my neighbours and intimindated, so i spent two years living indoors to get away from them. If i had an Aspie group, they'd find out and all the severe gossiping, bullying and ignorance e.t.c would start again!  I haven't had a good time at all- so still stuck how to meet people. I know someone my neighbours know, whom now grown up son has  autism and they called him weired to his face- so they aren't understanding, thoughtful people and i'd worry they'd call me odd et.c if they found out i had aspergers.

I know we need human contact. i'm the same as you. i love time out to myself, but don't mind some people,like being with some types of people some times. But how is my prob.

I hate feeling lonely too, but love the space. But i like a certain personality  type. In the past few years i've only met self ricouse, arrogant, stereotyping, people that just sterotyped me, tried to put me into the 'normal' box, tried to 'project' me and change me, condition me and would only ask me questions to try and sort me, invade my privacy,but wouldn't look at their own problems. They also bullied m a little, which was bad enough and kept testing me about my knowldege, which was thoughtless, when i was in the middle of a break down and my memory had gone due to phenominal stress and worry. They were also hypocryts. So somehow, i need to meet that type of personality that aren't self riceous, not over confident but play meek and don't want to 'project' me. I relax, when i meet people that aren't like that.

I'm glad you have a partner and your animals, i get very ill not having anybody around daily, even though i need solitude breaks. it is hard sometimes. Thats why i kill myself with exercise, to keep up and busy.

Hi,

Thank-You. I don't have any choice but to run my own bussiness. I've tried working the conventional way, but it just makes me mentally and physically ill and therapy and relaxation therapies don't seem to make it any easier. So as beyond stressful and worrying as it is, i don't have any choice.

Sorry to hear you also know what it's like experiencing bullies- if it was emotional bullying, it can be one of the hardest things to explain to people, it can come out as thin air to the people you are telling, but that's why bullies emotionally bully, they know it can affect you, but know it's subtle enough to get away with doing it for longer. Is anybody at your work now emotionally bullying you?

My concern about working at an animal sanctuary e.t.c, is that i get so attatched, i feel like all animals are my family, that if one had to be euthanised, i would be heart broken. Either that or the manager would just put me on cleaning out duty-so not as rewarding as actually working with the animals. I have applied now to support dogs charity to put out collection tins and possibly be a bucket shaker and canine partners to do the same-but canine partners is done from head office in another part of the UK. So no opportunity to meet people, but i'd be out an about.And next week have an email task for a leading charity to do something supportive- can't say what though. But from home again.Have an email in my draft box waiting to send to the unsupportive vol work i applied for saying please can yo put my application on hold e.t.c  So still stuck how to meet people.

In my area,there is an aspergers children's support group and adults only meet once a month in an evening and they go bowling- but as i have no income, no benefits, it's a luxury i can't afford! I can't set up one myself as i only told my family and close frineds, that are old school friends,i have aspergers, but they now live elsewhere in the UK. They have some intelligence to get it, well some of them do. But i don't tell everybody because i have been emotionally bullied by my neighbours and intimindated, so i spent two years living indoors to get away from them. If i had an Aspie group, they'd find out and all the severe gossiping, bullying and ignorance e.t.c would start again!  I haven't had a good time at all- so still stuck how to meet people. I know someone my neighbours know, whom now grown up son has  autism and they called him weired to his face- so they aren't understanding, thoughtful people and i'd worry they'd call me odd et.c if they found out i had aspergers.

I know we need human contact. i'm the same as you. i love time out to myself, but don't mind some people,like being with some types of people some times. But how is my prob.

I hate feeling lonely too, but love the space. But i like a certain personality  type. In the past few years i've only met self ricouse, arrogant, stereotyping, people that just sterotyped me, tried to put me into the 'normal' box, tried to 'project' me and change me, condition me and would only ask me questions to try and sort me, invade my privacy,but wouldn't look at their own problems. They also bullied m a little, which was bad enough and kept testing me about my knowldege, which was thoughtless, when i was in the middle of a break down and my memory had gone due to phenominal stress and worry. They were also hypocryts. So somehow, i need to meet that type of personality that aren't self riceous, not over confident but play meek and don't want to 'project' me. I relax, when i meet people that aren't like that.

I'm glad you have a partner and your animals, i get very ill not having anybody around daily, even though i need solitude breaks. it is hard sometimes. Thats why i kill myself with exercise, to keep up and busy.