Hi,
Today I heartely visited the RSPCA and then had to be turned away because they were closed.
Having decided to buy a cat, I felt the need to really be secure in my decision.
I decided on a cat that was loving in return. Potential for some good adventures with my cat indoors for a few weeks. Fully ready.
Lots Of love
James
Hello!
I know what you mean about the exhaustion that comes with being with people all day and the pressures and expetations and the constant busyness and chat, and if it's with people that are opinionated/misconstrued you or want it their way, or work with people that are not people people,then it is exhausting. And that's ontop of having to do the actual work too. I tried it that way and in the 90's chronic fatigue wasn't recognised, so i just struggled on and ontop of everything alse, it was hurrendously exhausting.
That's one reason why i'd hoped for a dog, so i could go for walks, more gentle than hard core exercise, you get outdoors, meet people, but i'm not in any possition to have one-and my cat is so important, i couldn't risk distressing/loosing him.
Non of my family are close, and so 4 times a year when i see them, i can feel very good, but it is short lived. So i just have my animals. But i get social exhaustion if i do have a long time with them, but i don't mind because am glad to see them.
i get very sad my bussiness hasn't been noticed/non existent. i worry silly. I can't work out why it isn't working my prices are good, i have qualifications, i am kind, i have knowledge, i can't advertise it on facebook or other social media as i am a bit vulnerable, and could be open to people in the same line of bussiness sabotaging my web pages. I can't afford to be bullied ever again! I do worry that people that have the same type of bussiness have spread false gossip about me, in order to keep customers, but there are 20 other similar bussiness, so they'd have to spread gossip about all of them to keep their customers.
I just applied for voluntary work with people you'd think would understand, but i am very upset and stressed. And confused-the person say's they are kind-the role comes with being kind, but they aren't listening properly. My BMJ book of stress say's to make things less stressful, to be orgnised and pre plan your journey e.t.c, so i emailed the organiser and asked a request and she wouldn't change the plan to make things less stressful, she makes it look like it's me that has to change, but aspergers is aspergers and it isn't something to control/change. I thought my suggestion was a good idea, but possibly the coordinator is trying to make me look dumb by accident- but if i don't go for the voluntary work, i spend months not really seeing anybody-it is very bad, i get so ill from the isolation and some months it'a a huge emotional strugle and it's exhausting. So i'm not sure what to do. I could do other vol work, but it means it's the type where i possibly may not meet people. And with all my fur babies e.t.c i only have certain hours free.
It is very stressful and hard working for myself- i get worried silly and so upset beacuse i may be parranoid, but worry it may be because people don't like me-but they don't know me.
Hello!
I know what you mean about the exhaustion that comes with being with people all day and the pressures and expetations and the constant busyness and chat, and if it's with people that are opinionated/misconstrued you or want it their way, or work with people that are not people people,then it is exhausting. And that's ontop of having to do the actual work too. I tried it that way and in the 90's chronic fatigue wasn't recognised, so i just struggled on and ontop of everything alse, it was hurrendously exhausting.
That's one reason why i'd hoped for a dog, so i could go for walks, more gentle than hard core exercise, you get outdoors, meet people, but i'm not in any possition to have one-and my cat is so important, i couldn't risk distressing/loosing him.
Non of my family are close, and so 4 times a year when i see them, i can feel very good, but it is short lived. So i just have my animals. But i get social exhaustion if i do have a long time with them, but i don't mind because am glad to see them.
i get very sad my bussiness hasn't been noticed/non existent. i worry silly. I can't work out why it isn't working my prices are good, i have qualifications, i am kind, i have knowledge, i can't advertise it on facebook or other social media as i am a bit vulnerable, and could be open to people in the same line of bussiness sabotaging my web pages. I can't afford to be bullied ever again! I do worry that people that have the same type of bussiness have spread false gossip about me, in order to keep customers, but there are 20 other similar bussiness, so they'd have to spread gossip about all of them to keep their customers.
I just applied for voluntary work with people you'd think would understand, but i am very upset and stressed. And confused-the person say's they are kind-the role comes with being kind, but they aren't listening properly. My BMJ book of stress say's to make things less stressful, to be orgnised and pre plan your journey e.t.c, so i emailed the organiser and asked a request and she wouldn't change the plan to make things less stressful, she makes it look like it's me that has to change, but aspergers is aspergers and it isn't something to control/change. I thought my suggestion was a good idea, but possibly the coordinator is trying to make me look dumb by accident- but if i don't go for the voluntary work, i spend months not really seeing anybody-it is very bad, i get so ill from the isolation and some months it'a a huge emotional strugle and it's exhausting. So i'm not sure what to do. I could do other vol work, but it means it's the type where i possibly may not meet people. And with all my fur babies e.t.c i only have certain hours free.
It is very stressful and hard working for myself- i get worried silly and so upset beacuse i may be parranoid, but worry it may be because people don't like me-but they don't know me.
