Hi,
Today I heartely visited the RSPCA and then had to be turned away because they were closed.
Having decided to buy a cat, I felt the need to really be secure in my decision.
I decided on a cat that was loving in return. Potential for some good adventures with my cat indoors for a few weeks. Fully ready.
Lots Of love
James
Hello!
I know were going off subjects of new pets now, so will look forward to new thread in few weeks-thanx for explaining- same with me- if i never reply on the society for a while, it's for other reasons, and i come back again.
I AM SO RELIEVED!! You have described exactly what life is like for me!!!! And how people see me, when i'm not like that, i just have aspergers.i get so ill sometimes and get so stressed,because people always bully me or twist it to make it look it's all like my problem and try to make me change, when i'm fine with alot of things how i am!!
That's why i don't go to work, because i have tried it that way so many times and i always come across horrid,self riceous, changy,patronising, sometimes controlling people and i get so ill,plus i get so anxious and stressed with the bossess expectations and putitng on me and control. if it happens just when i meet people in day to day life now, how would i cope with work, people keep trying to push me into work like that, even though i set up my own bussiness, and because it is beyond non existent( i can't say what i do for confidentiality) people are like ohh, try to get into work, they have no idea what it's like that way and forget i tell them why i can't do it that way, it's not even resistance, i know myself well and i'm not making pathetic excuses! i don't even get benefits,i can't go on job seekers as they have so many rules and the purpose is for that one is to make you go into work, or you can't have it, so a parent gives me money for living- the emotional impact of my bussiness being so slow is hurrendous and i feel hurrendously ill at times, my one friend is just arrogant, and thoughtless, and belittleing and only her perception counts, so i feel a bit bullied, so i don't see her.my other lovely friends don't live here,so i am just on my own most of the time.
People assue i'm dumb e.t.c and assume i think i'm perfect and assume i think i know everything and assume i think i'm amazing, they don't know me and how i suffer! i'm so sorry you get bullied and got bullied. I hope it hasn't had a lasting impact on you?
Even exercise doesn't cure me sometimes as the effect of my bussiness being beyond slow knocks me down badly again, so i have to do more exercise and so i get exhausted, it's a constant circular battle sometimes. Sometimes, even my fur babies don't help, maybe it's because i am so stressed sometimes, but perhaps they do help, and it's just i don't feel their love and effects emidiately. I've got through the last ten years, with it being like that permanantly, so maybe their is something to be said for having animals in our lives. They are so patient and understanding and don't have horridly thoughtless, twisted personalities and don't make me look wrong.
Hello!
I know were going off subjects of new pets now, so will look forward to new thread in few weeks-thanx for explaining- same with me- if i never reply on the society for a while, it's for other reasons, and i come back again.
I AM SO RELIEVED!! You have described exactly what life is like for me!!!! And how people see me, when i'm not like that, i just have aspergers.i get so ill sometimes and get so stressed,because people always bully me or twist it to make it look it's all like my problem and try to make me change, when i'm fine with alot of things how i am!!
That's why i don't go to work, because i have tried it that way so many times and i always come across horrid,self riceous, changy,patronising, sometimes controlling people and i get so ill,plus i get so anxious and stressed with the bossess expectations and putitng on me and control. if it happens just when i meet people in day to day life now, how would i cope with work, people keep trying to push me into work like that, even though i set up my own bussiness, and because it is beyond non existent( i can't say what i do for confidentiality) people are like ohh, try to get into work, they have no idea what it's like that way and forget i tell them why i can't do it that way, it's not even resistance, i know myself well and i'm not making pathetic excuses! i don't even get benefits,i can't go on job seekers as they have so many rules and the purpose is for that one is to make you go into work, or you can't have it, so a parent gives me money for living- the emotional impact of my bussiness being so slow is hurrendous and i feel hurrendously ill at times, my one friend is just arrogant, and thoughtless, and belittleing and only her perception counts, so i feel a bit bullied, so i don't see her.my other lovely friends don't live here,so i am just on my own most of the time.
People assue i'm dumb e.t.c and assume i think i'm perfect and assume i think i know everything and assume i think i'm amazing, they don't know me and how i suffer! i'm so sorry you get bullied and got bullied. I hope it hasn't had a lasting impact on you?
Even exercise doesn't cure me sometimes as the effect of my bussiness being beyond slow knocks me down badly again, so i have to do more exercise and so i get exhausted, it's a constant circular battle sometimes. Sometimes, even my fur babies don't help, maybe it's because i am so stressed sometimes, but perhaps they do help, and it's just i don't feel their love and effects emidiately. I've got through the last ten years, with it being like that permanantly, so maybe their is something to be said for having animals in our lives. They are so patient and understanding and don't have horridly thoughtless, twisted personalities and don't make me look wrong.
