OCD - what’s helped?

Can anyone who has OCD share with me what’s helped them most? My son was having nhs therapy which hasn’t really helped him - and now they’re saying they’re going to discharge him (which is in itself weird because how can they discharge someone if they haven’t helped them get better?!). 

can anyone recommend anything? Maybe a really good book or something? Because I think we are not left with any option other than to try and help ourselves with this. 
Any advice will be gratefully received :) 

Parents
  • now they’re saying they’re going to discharge him (which is in itself weird because how can they discharge someone if they haven’t helped them get better?!).

    They can discharge him if they cannot help, if they lack capacity or if they have higher priority cases.

    I think their only obligation is to try to help if they have the capacity and ability, both of which are in short supply now.

    What age is your son? Ideas for helping a 5 year old will be different to a 15 year old for example.

  • My son is in his very early twenties. Because his NHS therapist has alienated him so much I’m beginning to think we are all going to have to work together as a family to help with his ocd - so I’m wanted to ask if anyone on here has used any books or resources that were particularly helpful. 

Reply Children
  • That’s incredibly kind of you Iain - many thanks for sending all of these! I will investigate these - thank you :) 

  • I’m wanted to ask if anyone on here has used any books or resources that were particularly helpful

    I don't have any firsthand experience of treating OCD but I had a look on a site which has lots of books on the subject which can be used for research purposes (Library Genesis is its name).

    I found the following list of OCD related titles which you can look up on the likes of Amazon and check the reviews to see which ones are well rated:

    100 questions & answers about your child's OCD - Josiane Cobert (2010).pdf
    A Clinician's Guide to Treating OCD, The Most Effective CBT Approaches for Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder - Jan Van Niekerk (2018).epub
    Beating OCD and Anxiety, 75 Tried and Tested Strategies for Sufferers and their Supporters - Tarrant , Helena (2020).epub
    Breaking Free from OCD, A CBT Guide for Young People and Their Families - Jo Derisley, Isobel Heyman, Sarah Robinson, Cynthia Turner, Lisa Jo Robinson (2008).pdf
    Breaking Free of Child Anxiety and OCD, A Scientifically Proven Program for Parents - Eli R. Lebowitz (2020).epub
    Can I tell you about OCD - A guide for friends, family and professionals - Amita Jassi (2013).epub
    Daring to Challenge OCD, Overcome Your Fear of Treatment and Take Control of Your Life Using Exposure and Response Prevention - Joan Davidson (2014).epub
    Digital quicksand avoiding social media OCD - Stack, Laura (2013).epub
    Exposure Therapy for Children with Anxiety and OCD, Clinician's Guide to Integrated Treatment - Tara S. Peris, Eric A. Storch, Joseph F. McGuire (2020).pdf
    Family-Based Treatment for Young Children with OCD Workbook - Jennifer B Freeman, Abbe Marrs Garcia (2008).pdf
    Free from OCD. A Workbook for Teens with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder - Timothy Sisemore (2012).epub
    Leaving the OCD Circus, Your Big Ticket Out of Having to Control Every Little Thing - Kirsten Pagacz (2016).epub
    Making your OCD work for you - The Barefoot Doctor (2017).pdf
    Managing OCD with CBT for Dummies - Katie D’Ath, Rob Willson (2016).epub
    Misdiagnosis and Dual Diagnoses of Gifted Children and Adults, ADHD, Bipolar, OCD, Asperger's, Depression, and Other Disorders - James T. Webb, Edward R. Amend, Paul Beljan (2016.pdf
    Nowhere Near Normal, A Memoir of OCD - Traci Foust (2011).epub
    Obsessive compulsions, the OCD of everyday life - Gualtieri, C. Thomas (2018).epub
    Obsessive Compulsive Disorder_ Practical Tried-and-Tested Strategies to Overcome OCD - Frederick Toates, Olga Coschug-Toates (2002).pdf
    OCD and autism_ a clinician's guide to adapting CBT - Jassi, Amita_Johnston, Kate_Russell, Ailsa (2019_2018).epub
    OCD For Dummies - Laura L. Smith (2022).pdf
    OCD Treatment Through Storytelling, A Strategy for Successful Therapy - Allen H. Weg (2011).pdf
    OCD, A Guide for the Newly Diagnosed - Michael A. Tompkins (2012).epub
    OCD, anxiety, panic attacks and related depression, the definitive survival and recovery approach - Lauren Callaghan, Adam Shaw (2016).epub
    Overcoming Harm OCD, Mindfulness and CBT Tools for Overcoming Unwanted Violent Thoughts and Compulsions - Hershfield, Jon (2018).epub
    Overthinking About You Navigating Romantic Relationships When You Have Anxiety, OCD, and or Depression - Raskin, Allison (2022).epub
    Parenting kids with OCD, a guide to understanding and supporting your child with obsessive-compulsive disorder - Zucker, Bonnie (2018).epub
    PURE OCD, The Invisible Side of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder - Chrissie Hodges (2017).epub
    Relationship OCD - Sheva Rajaee (2021).epub
    Rewire your OCD brain, powerful neuroscience-based skills to break free from obsessive thoughts & fears - William H. Youngs, Catherine M. Pittman (2021).epub
    Talking Back to OCD, The Program That Helps Kids and Teens Say - John S. March (2006).pdf
    The Everything Health Guide to OCD - Professional advice on handling anxiety, understanding treatment options, and finding the support you need - Chelsea Lowe (2007).epub
    The Mindfulness Workbook for OCD_ A Guide to Overcoming Obsessions and Compulsions Using Mindfulness and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - Jon Hershfield, Tom Corboy (2013).azw3
    The OCD Answer Book - Patrick B. McGrath, (2007).pdf
    The OCD Workbook for Teens - Jon Hershfield (2021).epub
    The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD, Lean into Your Fear, Manage Difficult Emotions, and Focus On Recovery - Kimberley Quinlan (2021).epub
    The World of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, The Experiences of Living with OCD - Dana Fennell (2022).pdf
    Thriving in Relationships When You Have OCD, How to Keep Obsessions and Compulsions from Sabotaging Love, Friendship, and Family Connections - Amy Mariaskin (2022).epub
    Treating Your OCD with Exposure and Response (Ritual) Prevention Therapy_ Workbook - Elna Yadin_ Edna B. Foa_ Tracey K. Lichner (2012).epub
    Turning Points, Peer Support with a Strategy to Help Those Affected by Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)- Shannon Shy (2021).epub
    Understanding OCD, Skills to Control the Conscience and Outsmart Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - Leslie Shapiro (2015).pdf
    Your brain on food, an indispensable guide to the surprising foods that fight depression, anxiety, PTSD, OCD, ADHD, and more - Uma Naidoo (2020).epub