Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

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  • @Paull, I am under no illusions as to what goes on in this country, or the world.  I also practice decent values and have never believed that Jesus was born on 25th December etc., I also have a healthy skepticism for the materialism of it all.  Yet I choose to participate in the occasion, because it's fun and magical for my children and my husband gets a rare day or two off work to spend with the family and we get to eat chocolates together, raise a glass and watch lots of films.  You are over-serious and imbuing people with negative qualities they don't possess.  There is no harm in Christmas or in allowing your children to celebrate and believe - as many posters on this thread have testified to.

    (were you chased by a rabid Santa as a child?!)

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  • @Paull, I am under no illusions as to what goes on in this country, or the world.  I also practice decent values and have never believed that Jesus was born on 25th December etc., I also have a healthy skepticism for the materialism of it all.  Yet I choose to participate in the occasion, because it's fun and magical for my children and my husband gets a rare day or two off work to spend with the family and we get to eat chocolates together, raise a glass and watch lots of films.  You are over-serious and imbuing people with negative qualities they don't possess.  There is no harm in Christmas or in allowing your children to celebrate and believe - as many posters on this thread have testified to.

    (were you chased by a rabid Santa as a child?!)

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