Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

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  • i have to ask paull, who do you mean by 'you'.

    or did you mean 'some people' get drunk, over eat and get into debt?

    i do agree a lie is a lie, i also believe firmly that some little white lies are harmless.

    i also respect and try to understand the opinions of others and like you i can disagree with the differing views of some.

    santa isn't real, but my 5 grown up kids bare no scars from my little white lies when they were young. the experience hasn't harmed them in any way not even when they discovered i hadn't been completely honest. they understood it was all part of the festive game. 

    i am a person of unreproachable integerity, priding myself on my honesty and being trusted by just about everyone i come into contact with. talking to my brood about santa doesn't make me bad.

    respect

    rob

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  • i have to ask paull, who do you mean by 'you'.

    or did you mean 'some people' get drunk, over eat and get into debt?

    i do agree a lie is a lie, i also believe firmly that some little white lies are harmless.

    i also respect and try to understand the opinions of others and like you i can disagree with the differing views of some.

    santa isn't real, but my 5 grown up kids bare no scars from my little white lies when they were young. the experience hasn't harmed them in any way not even when they discovered i hadn't been completely honest. they understood it was all part of the festive game. 

    i am a person of unreproachable integerity, priding myself on my honesty and being trusted by just about everyone i come into contact with. talking to my brood about santa doesn't make me bad.

    respect

    rob

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