Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

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  • i myself do not believe in santa, however i can accept that others have a right to believe and so preach as they see fit (as long as they hurt nobody).

    i have met many through life who hold beliefs that may differ to mine. they are not wrong or untrustworthy, rather just different.

    i am not immune to taking some things personally and probably without justification took offence at comments suggesting that those in the education sector are not to be trusted. humour is my way of coping with situations i am not comfortable with. i work in education and in a subjective way was offended by the inferences i thought were being put forward.

    with this in mind i offer an olive branch, i hope it is accepted in the spirit it is offered.

    rob

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  • i myself do not believe in santa, however i can accept that others have a right to believe and so preach as they see fit (as long as they hurt nobody).

    i have met many through life who hold beliefs that may differ to mine. they are not wrong or untrustworthy, rather just different.

    i am not immune to taking some things personally and probably without justification took offence at comments suggesting that those in the education sector are not to be trusted. humour is my way of coping with situations i am not comfortable with. i work in education and in a subjective way was offended by the inferences i thought were being put forward.

    with this in mind i offer an olive branch, i hope it is accepted in the spirit it is offered.

    rob

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