Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

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  • Christmas season officially starts today, although in reality, it starts in September. This means that the pervasive characteristic of Santa as part of British popular culture is now out in full force because it's impossible to visit a supermarket without seeing cardboard pictures of him decorating the shelves of seasonal products. Some people visiting might ask "who is this strange and mysterious individual?" or "is he real or is he a figment of imagination like Mr Kipling and Uncle Ben?". There must be millions of people in Britain who find pictures of Santa as meaningless and insignificant as a notional British Christian will find a picture of Durga.

    The cynic in me says that Christmas and the fictitious character of Santa are nowadays just an opportunity for stores to make big money by selling us all sorts of stuff that we don't really need.

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  • Christmas season officially starts today, although in reality, it starts in September. This means that the pervasive characteristic of Santa as part of British popular culture is now out in full force because it's impossible to visit a supermarket without seeing cardboard pictures of him decorating the shelves of seasonal products. Some people visiting might ask "who is this strange and mysterious individual?" or "is he real or is he a figment of imagination like Mr Kipling and Uncle Ben?". There must be millions of people in Britain who find pictures of Santa as meaningless and insignificant as a notional British Christian will find a picture of Durga.

    The cynic in me says that Christmas and the fictitious character of Santa are nowadays just an opportunity for stores to make big money by selling us all sorts of stuff that we don't really need.

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