Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

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  • Paull said:
    "I am always listening and reading from a variety of sources"

    none of which can provide any hard facts because the result of telling this lie/myth to children can only be seen in their adulthood and as yet there is no study of adults.

    Oh do forgive me, I should have had the psychic abilities to realise that whilst I was accessing said sources, conversations, forums, books etc. that I ought to have been recording them faithfully because one day I would be facing a kangaroo court in which I would have to give evidence.

    I gave links for studies further up the thread.  I am prepared (along with others on this thread I'm sure, who expressed the same as myself that they had not been negatively impacted) to be considered as a research participant for any upcoming study (my only fee will be a chocolate santa).

    This is a farce.

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  • Paull said:
    "I am always listening and reading from a variety of sources"

    none of which can provide any hard facts because the result of telling this lie/myth to children can only be seen in their adulthood and as yet there is no study of adults.

    Oh do forgive me, I should have had the psychic abilities to realise that whilst I was accessing said sources, conversations, forums, books etc. that I ought to have been recording them faithfully because one day I would be facing a kangaroo court in which I would have to give evidence.

    I gave links for studies further up the thread.  I am prepared (along with others on this thread I'm sure, who expressed the same as myself that they had not been negatively impacted) to be considered as a research participant for any upcoming study (my only fee will be a chocolate santa).

    This is a farce.

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