Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

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  • Arran said:

    [quote]Any group could have any philosophy.  Don't see how it's a relevant point.[/quote]

    Because I assumed that being in the presence of such people would spoil your day.

    No.  Atypical thinking, but not strange and illogical.

    Isn't it strange and illogical to go round telling children that something exists that you fully well know doesn't exist, under the pretext of the joys of childhood or the magic of Christmas? I think it is.

    Never assume.  Assumptions are anathema to someone on the spectrum.

    No.  But then you don't appear to be a parent and suffer from strange thinking patterns.

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  • Arran said:

    [quote]Any group could have any philosophy.  Don't see how it's a relevant point.[/quote]

    Because I assumed that being in the presence of such people would spoil your day.

    No.  Atypical thinking, but not strange and illogical.

    Isn't it strange and illogical to go round telling children that something exists that you fully well know doesn't exist, under the pretext of the joys of childhood or the magic of Christmas? I think it is.

    Never assume.  Assumptions are anathema to someone on the spectrum.

    No.  But then you don't appear to be a parent and suffer from strange thinking patterns.

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