Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

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  • Arran said:

    I suspect that there are lots of NAS members who propagate the Santa lie to their children but haven't got the guts to admit it here. Considering that about half the parents at my local independent AS support group lie about Santa to their children then the NAS is probably even worse in this regard. My experience of the NAS is that it's more concerned about image than the truth.

    It's really not the business of the NAS, as a charity, to take any position on this topic at all. I think you're also conflating 'NAS members' with 'the NAS as an institution' in a way which may be misleading. Individual NAS members may do all sorts of things without the slightest implication that the charity takes any official view on those things at all.

    You've several times called for the views of non-Christian religious people on the topics in this thread. It may just be that there aren't any reading it, or that they don't wish to contribute. There's not a lot to be gained by demanding people get involved if they don't want to or aren't there.

    Alex R (posting personally)

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  • Arran said:

    I suspect that there are lots of NAS members who propagate the Santa lie to their children but haven't got the guts to admit it here. Considering that about half the parents at my local independent AS support group lie about Santa to their children then the NAS is probably even worse in this regard. My experience of the NAS is that it's more concerned about image than the truth.

    It's really not the business of the NAS, as a charity, to take any position on this topic at all. I think you're also conflating 'NAS members' with 'the NAS as an institution' in a way which may be misleading. Individual NAS members may do all sorts of things without the slightest implication that the charity takes any official view on those things at all.

    You've several times called for the views of non-Christian religious people on the topics in this thread. It may just be that there aren't any reading it, or that they don't wish to contribute. There's not a lot to be gained by demanding people get involved if they don't want to or aren't there.

    Alex R (posting personally)

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