Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

Parents
  • If you want reasons, read the quotes that I put.  I agree with what they said, that such myths are a valuable part of growing up, contribute to a child's development and are not harmful.  Many of us have said it didn't harm us.  What other insights would you like!

    Is there scientific proof that there is dark matter in the universe?  Is there scientific proof of gravity?  Is there scientific proof of worm holes?  And yet they are all hypothetical as are many other things.

    You are the one who cannot answer with their own mind I am afraid (other than dogged misconceptions).  You have still omitted to respond to many salient points that have been posted, you just go on the attack and accuse me of not having any intelligence.  I am sure readers of this thread can see what's going on here and I don't need to say any more than that.

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  • If you want reasons, read the quotes that I put.  I agree with what they said, that such myths are a valuable part of growing up, contribute to a child's development and are not harmful.  Many of us have said it didn't harm us.  What other insights would you like!

    Is there scientific proof that there is dark matter in the universe?  Is there scientific proof of gravity?  Is there scientific proof of worm holes?  And yet they are all hypothetical as are many other things.

    You are the one who cannot answer with their own mind I am afraid (other than dogged misconceptions).  You have still omitted to respond to many salient points that have been posted, you just go on the attack and accuse me of not having any intelligence.  I am sure readers of this thread can see what's going on here and I don't need to say any more than that.

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