Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

Parents
  • IntenseWorld wrote:

    Notice how you artfully didn't mention the part where I (and others posted further up) was not scarred.

    Smoking is bad for you - but nobody is going to become permanently ill after one cigarette.

    One lie is not going to scar anybody, Nowhere did I say this lie alone is going to damage or harm anyone, but it will without question interfere with any childs rational thinking, too many lies will put the child into overload.

    Telling a child one lie is just like giving a child one cigarette.

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  • IntenseWorld wrote:

    Notice how you artfully didn't mention the part where I (and others posted further up) was not scarred.

    Smoking is bad for you - but nobody is going to become permanently ill after one cigarette.

    One lie is not going to scar anybody, Nowhere did I say this lie alone is going to damage or harm anyone, but it will without question interfere with any childs rational thinking, too many lies will put the child into overload.

    Telling a child one lie is just like giving a child one cigarette.

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