Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

Parents
  • I'm interested in answers from people who follow religions other than Christianity and do not celebrate Christmas. Do these people exist in the NAS?

    NAS5794 said:
    Surely most children, by the time they work out the truth, are old enough to understand why their parents said such a thing?

    Work out the truth or find out the truth?

    Anyone who believes otherwise is a killjoy of huge proportions.

    Again, I ask what is the situation for children who follow religions other than Christianity and do not celebrate Christmas? Do they all have to keep their traps firmly shut in the school playground just in case it offends a child duped by their parents into believing that Santa is true? What if such a child enquires about Christmas and receives a reply "I don't have any presents, my family doesn't celebrate Christmas" then is the person giving the reply a killjoy?

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  • I'm interested in answers from people who follow religions other than Christianity and do not celebrate Christmas. Do these people exist in the NAS?

    NAS5794 said:
    Surely most children, by the time they work out the truth, are old enough to understand why their parents said such a thing?

    Work out the truth or find out the truth?

    Anyone who believes otherwise is a killjoy of huge proportions.

    Again, I ask what is the situation for children who follow religions other than Christianity and do not celebrate Christmas? Do they all have to keep their traps firmly shut in the school playground just in case it offends a child duped by their parents into believing that Santa is true? What if such a child enquires about Christmas and receives a reply "I don't have any presents, my family doesn't celebrate Christmas" then is the person giving the reply a killjoy?

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