Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

Parents
  • I don't see why one is different from another personally, just because one is older and written in a book. Even so, the crux of the matter, once it's boiled down is: whether to tell the "truth" to someone not in the know about a certain aspect of their lives, or whether not to - a question which transcends Santa, religion and on to many other topics, including ones we couldn't think of. My personal experience has told me not to tell the "truth". I don't really want to make enemies in this life, particularly. I don't want to see someone upset and enraged with me; God knows I get enough abuse as it is from various circles! Laughing

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  • I don't see why one is different from another personally, just because one is older and written in a book. Even so, the crux of the matter, once it's boiled down is: whether to tell the "truth" to someone not in the know about a certain aspect of their lives, or whether not to - a question which transcends Santa, religion and on to many other topics, including ones we couldn't think of. My personal experience has told me not to tell the "truth". I don't really want to make enemies in this life, particularly. I don't want to see someone upset and enraged with me; God knows I get enough abuse as it is from various circles! Laughing

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