Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

Parents
  • Not being able to see that one lie leads to another is the reason why society is failing. A seed can make a tree and that tree can make a forest. If you stop the seed from growing then the forest will not grow, therefore to plant the seed of a lie is not a trivial thing.

    To tell a child that something is true when it is not true is planting the seed of a lie.

    Cause and effect is not a fallacy.

    If anyone wants their child to grow up wise then they will bring them up with truth.

    If pointing that out means one is 'hell bent' on the truth then it's a blessing. If only everyone else in society was hell bent on the truth we would all be living in happiness.

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  • Not being able to see that one lie leads to another is the reason why society is failing. A seed can make a tree and that tree can make a forest. If you stop the seed from growing then the forest will not grow, therefore to plant the seed of a lie is not a trivial thing.

    To tell a child that something is true when it is not true is planting the seed of a lie.

    Cause and effect is not a fallacy.

    If anyone wants their child to grow up wise then they will bring them up with truth.

    If pointing that out means one is 'hell bent' on the truth then it's a blessing. If only everyone else in society was hell bent on the truth we would all be living in happiness.

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