Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

Parents
  • It's not telling lies.  You don't stand there and announce the fable and say "and that's the absolute truth".  You are just allowing a belief, and that's not the same as lying.  Not everything is so black and white.  What's worse:

    1) allowing your children the magic they deserve until they are old enough to take the truth on board; or

    2) destroying the magic just so you can be sure they know the full truth of the adult world in all its "glory"?

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  • It's not telling lies.  You don't stand there and announce the fable and say "and that's the absolute truth".  You are just allowing a belief, and that's not the same as lying.  Not everything is so black and white.  What's worse:

    1) allowing your children the magic they deserve until they are old enough to take the truth on board; or

    2) destroying the magic just so you can be sure they know the full truth of the adult world in all its "glory"?

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