Is Santa silly?

I'm writing this as someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas in either a religious or cultural sense. From a young age I was told that Santa doesn't exist and is just a silly hoax that parents play on their kids. It never affected me in any bad way and neither was I expecting to find wrapped presents mysteriously appear on the morning of the 25th day of December. If anybody in my family received a Christmas gift then it was usually opened on the same day. A downside to this is that even from the age of 4 or 5 I went round telling kids at school "Father Christmas isn't real, it's all made up, your parents buy Christmas presents from the shops" which often resulted in me getting into trouble whenever they got upset. I once had to report to the head teacher after completely reducing a classmate to tears.

Is the concept of Santa a silly nonsense or is it part of the joys of childhood? Do you tell your own children the truth or would you prefer to go along with the cultural norm? Is pleasing one's classmates more important than knowing the truth? What about children at school who follow different religions so do not celebrate Christmas - where do they fit in?

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  • My children (both on the spectrum) have always believed in Father Christmas.  Even my eldest who is now 12.  I think it is part of the innocence and magic of childhood, and no it's not silly.  Children are made to grow up too quickly these days and it puts inordinate pressure on them.

    You don't say if you are on the spectrum or not, I suspect you are as you blurted out the truth to your classmates without thought.  I don't blame you though as your parents put the knowledge in your head and I feel they were very unfair in bursting such an innocent bubble.

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  • My children (both on the spectrum) have always believed in Father Christmas.  Even my eldest who is now 12.  I think it is part of the innocence and magic of childhood, and no it's not silly.  Children are made to grow up too quickly these days and it puts inordinate pressure on them.

    You don't say if you are on the spectrum or not, I suspect you are as you blurted out the truth to your classmates without thought.  I don't blame you though as your parents put the knowledge in your head and I feel they were very unfair in bursting such an innocent bubble.

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