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Do I tell a potential partner / friends that I am autistic?

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Its not easy relating to others but I have joined a walking club and been out walking with a lady from the club.  She says she sometimes does not understand me and I guess thats difficult but impossible?  How to others manage?  I love to spend time with someone but also need a lot of time alone.  

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  • I’ve not really been in this situation as I was already with my partner when diagnosed, but I would go with honesty. If you hope to start a meaningful and lasting relationship/friendship you shouldn’t have to hide a part of yourself.

    To give some hope, I did tell my partner about my mental health issues on our first date and we’ve been together for nearly 8 years now.

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  • I’ve not really been in this situation as I was already with my partner when diagnosed, but I would go with honesty. If you hope to start a meaningful and lasting relationship/friendship you shouldn’t have to hide a part of yourself.

    To give some hope, I did tell my partner about my mental health issues on our first date and we’ve been together for nearly 8 years now.

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