Published on 12, July, 2020
I think that there are large parallels between the experiences of trans people and autistic people, so I thought it might be good to share some information on some of the problems trans people face and guidance on how to be a good ally.
I know it looks like a lot, but I hope it helps to increase understanding and compassion. If any other trans people who want to add to this, please do.
It blows my mind how awful the anti-trans movement is. My trans friends are some of the loveliest people I know. The media doesn't help not does social media with the spread of misinformation and fear mongering.
I've questioned my gender for years as although I don't identify as trans, I don't really fit into the typical female category that society tells me I should be - if that makes any sense. I always used to say "I'm not a girl, I'm a rock chick" because it was the only way I could really identify with the fact I don't like typically female things but I don't identify as male. I'm rambling I know so I hope this makes sense?
I now identify as non binary for exactly the reasons you describe. I've been enjoying playing with gender expression. There are so many things that girls are "supposed" to be that made me feel cross because I just didn't fit with them.
I always remember my mother telling me "why can't you be more like other little girls?" because I loved being outdoors, climbing trees, riding my bike and playing with bugs whereas my Dad just let me be "me" - it never made sense that my school friends liked hair and make up, boy bands and playing house whereas I wanted to just be outside picking apples from the park or messing around on bikes. Plus 'boys toys' were so much cooler than 'girls toys'. Luckily one of my other friends were a proper tomboy and I'd go over and we'd play video games and stuff :)