Relax

Sell cannabis products! IF you can do it successfully, it will solve ALL your needs in one go!

There are of course a million reasons why that is awful and unworkable advice! But I hope it made you smile briefly..

I stay calm and relaxed, by controlling what I can, and trying to get better at coping with what I cannot control. 

ON the subject of getting them to come to you and then getting them to want to see you again, which feminine wiles you use, depend on a number of personal & circumstance factors and of course your personal ethics. 

During my laughable efforts as a young man to form relationships, which were it turns out, laughably compromised by my complete inability to recognise when  woman wanted to be more than "just a friend" I've been enticed to come back with food, entertainment etc in my time. One poor woman who I really did miss the signs for, played bridge, had me doing handyman stuff, introduced me to many of her friends, talked to me for hours on end about really interesting stuff, and was seemingly interested in what I liked, how I worked, etc. I had no idea at the time of course...But she was a good friend and we had a lot of pleasant times together.

Use your more sexist female friends to learn about blokes and the different types of us. Universal tip. Makeup: Ignore the adverts, ignore your female friends, for most blokes, less is more... 

Above all, enjoy the challenge, it's a game of skill, getting on with people... 

I Sperg said:

Makeup: Ignore the adverts, ignore your female friends, for most blokes, less is more.

This!

Thank you Sperg for mentioning that very thing. Based on conversations I've had with men about makeup, almost all have said they find makeup that subtly enhances a woman's natural beauty far more appealing.

Many seem to be baffled as to why women feel the need to go out of their way to look as unnatural as possible, with fake tan, false eyelashes caked with mascara, etc.

I Sperg said:

Makeup: Ignore the adverts, ignore your female friends, for most blokes, less is more.

This!

Thank you Sperg for mentioning that very thing. Based on conversations I've had with men about makeup, almost all have said they find makeup that subtly enhances a woman's natural beauty far more appealing.

Many seem to be baffled as to why women feel the need to go out of their way to look as unnatural as possible, with fake tan, false eyelashes caked with mascara, etc.

Kids are brought up online, these days. 

I completely agree. It's like they have been mass-produced in a factory... and don't get me started on the 'trout pout' selfie poses. 

There is a trend among some young women to wear heavy make-up - what I would call 'pancake' - define their eyebrows to ridiculous degrees and end up looking 100% plastic. It is like they are not really human, like animatronic dolls. This is not attractive at all. Like overly muscled men, the amount of time needed to achieve the - unpleasant - results, suggests narcissism.