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Today I learned that one of my adult child's Friends Lorna now goes by the name Loz and identifies as male.  

Apparently if  am not to cause offence I now need to rejig a couple of decades of being vaguely aware of this person as a very feminine looking girl through to young woman and refer to Loz as HE in conversation from now on.

Loz's boyfriend apparently has had to make psychological adjustments that make my issues look trivial in comparison, but apparently he will do that for love.... 

Funny old world innit?

I will say this: The next time my o/h decides to crack wise at my expense, we'll see how she likes being effectively in a lesbian relationship for a while.. The cheapest way to go trans I've figured is to also change my faith at the same time. No biggie, we worship the same god, just in a diverse way.... Then al I need is a cheap and cheerful bhurka to chuck over the "cargo pants and tee", and the job is done! 

(I think I'll keep that one "in the hopper" for if my personal war of the sexes battlefield situation demands "special weapons" one day) We seem to be in a period of detente right now, so maybe I'll hold off ordering the bhurka...

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  • To be honest I'm not sure how they experience being they/them. I didn't read anything about that made any sense. 

    It makes me wonder, because I've always had tendencies to speak 'with my other-self', as if two separate beings were talking with each other, instead of speaking 'to myself', like a monologue. Some 10 years ago, I pushed it a bit farther, and decided that there is actually 4 separate entities, one of them is non-speaker, and one is a woman. I've thought about it until now as a sort of mental excercise, a joke, or an entartainment when I'm alone. Especially that I did put a mirror by my PC desk, so I can see my reflection when doing something on my PC, and when two guys that usually do the talking argue with each other, I make one speak out loud, and the other move lips only, but I can see that in a mirroir and hear in my head.

    Does it make any sense to anybody?

    Or does it only prove that I'm insane? Except I knew that since small child, and I am very good at hiding it Smiley The same as I knew that my resting place is going to be mental asylum Stuck out tongue

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  • To be honest I'm not sure how they experience being they/them. I didn't read anything about that made any sense. 

    It makes me wonder, because I've always had tendencies to speak 'with my other-self', as if two separate beings were talking with each other, instead of speaking 'to myself', like a monologue. Some 10 years ago, I pushed it a bit farther, and decided that there is actually 4 separate entities, one of them is non-speaker, and one is a woman. I've thought about it until now as a sort of mental excercise, a joke, or an entartainment when I'm alone. Especially that I did put a mirror by my PC desk, so I can see my reflection when doing something on my PC, and when two guys that usually do the talking argue with each other, I make one speak out loud, and the other move lips only, but I can see that in a mirroir and hear in my head.

    Does it make any sense to anybody?

    Or does it only prove that I'm insane? Except I knew that since small child, and I am very good at hiding it Smiley The same as I knew that my resting place is going to be mental asylum Stuck out tongue

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