More hurtful to argue with another autistic person than someone who is not?

Hello everyone,

I run a Twitter account for an autism charity and via direct messaging on Twitter, I had a quarrel with another autistic person.

Is it more hurtful to argue with another autistic person than with a person who is neurotypical/allistic? I have the sentiment of we're on the same side and we've got enough difficulties without arguing with one another.

Would like to know the thoughts of others.