Hi everyone. I am new to this site although my autistic grandson is almost 12 years old and I have cared for him since birth (daily minding). I have come here in the hope that I may be able to help my son get some sort of help with his son. My grandson is in education at our local school but we don't feel he is getting the assistance he should be getting. He currently has been diagnosed as autistic, suffering dyspraxia and hyper mobility, we are also waiting for an assessment for ADHD and this has been for over a year now.
He is very bright academically but has quite a few melt downs over what are considered trivial things (to him they are not). He is in receipt of detentions every day because of this. He has to be collected to go to the detention but invariably this doesn't happen, he then leaves the school and hangs around outside for an hour waiting to be collected because we think he is in school. No matter how many times this has been approached with many members of the school staff nothing changes. Because he has hyper mobility problems he is extremely tired and suffers pain, as a result when he gets home is unable to do his homework hence he's given another detention. The school is not listening and is not carrying out their promises to remedy this. There are also a number of teachers who clearly do not like him because he is disruptive. He is being bullied by a 16 year old boy who hit him from behind over the head with an object. The teacher accused him of lying when he reported it, fortunately, there was a witness but still he got the blame because the boy claimed he had said something offensive to him but we are not sure about that as my grandson didn't even know he was behind him. We have another meeting at the school on Thursday but don't know which way to tackle this any differently to what we have already done.
Sorry to bend your ear so soon but just hoping does anyone know if this can be taken above school level and if so to whom.
Thank you so much for reading this, you have probably gathered I am at my wits end worrying just where this will lead. I thank you for any help anyone can give.