How do neurotypicals think?

It’s a subject that has always puzzled me. My neighbours had a party on Friday which my wife attended. I could hear people in the garden, they seem to talk about nothing, there can be six comments over a slice of cake. They do seem to have a thought link about the weather. Communicating to be popular seems to be in their thought process. I have noticed that they do generally like to be in packs or herds of people, it seems to make them more secure.

*david Attenborough voice* the normies gather round the feeding hole eager to entice mates or share local knowledge about the region 

*david Attenborough voice* the normies gather round the feeding hole eager to entice mates or share local knowledge about the region 

Actually, I have knowledge of my local area. I was always the delegator at home; between my brother and my nan.