hard to keep having friends

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I am not good at keeping up with my friends. Maybe I give too much attention, too much care and all my so called best friends do is betray me, because their other friend doesn't like me or they themselves nitpick my smallest fault which is not actually my fault. It's like if I feel a strong connection to someone, they detach me from themselves. It happens with crushes as well, they make good friends, but when I express my feelings, they just leave me. I have started to feel inferior and started questioning myself, is there anything wrong with me. I need hope, any kind of hope.

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  • Many members here will relate to the difficulties you are experiencing with your friends. 

    As for crushes that you would like to be romantically involved with, there is no easy answer. It's like a roll of the dice, in that it's impossible to predict how it might turn out. It could be that the other person, unfortunately, doesn't feel the same way about you, no matter how much you may want them to. It is also possible that maybe they do have feelings for you, but they are just not ready to take the friendship to the next level, and so feel panicked when you declare your feelings for them.

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  • Many members here will relate to the difficulties you are experiencing with your friends. 

    As for crushes that you would like to be romantically involved with, there is no easy answer. It's like a roll of the dice, in that it's impossible to predict how it might turn out. It could be that the other person, unfortunately, doesn't feel the same way about you, no matter how much you may want them to. It is also possible that maybe they do have feelings for you, but they are just not ready to take the friendship to the next level, and so feel panicked when you declare your feelings for them.

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