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police still don't understand me

Daniel Brown

Really upset annoyed and angry with the police as for other going on 3 years I been reporting that people that my then partner is being brain washed and groomed and as soon as I said the word autism they don't care at all keep getting told oh she ok and safe but keep having to explain many times someone who is brainwashed is not going to tell you this as the person doing this in the room and the police told me 4 different things about theses people and the keep saying they not and put the whole blame on me saying Its me that's lying how can I when clearly I got all your emails saying theses a crime happening also they messed up Claire's law  and to make it worse I had phone call of officer who said he take my evidence and didn't he didn't know the people on live chat and when questioned all I got was excuses she still in dangers and  I was told by this officer that someone on tiktok who asks for big amounts of money and asks for personal detail and what benefits there  is ok also these people say they have severely disabled child but they can face time till 7am the next day sound really wrong I have decided to talk to lawyer as I feel used by the police there get out of jail 

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  • Hi Daniel. Are you able to describe in a broad sense what you think is happening? For example, when you say brain washed, in what sense? What are they being groomed into doing? The problem may be that even if what someone is doing is bad, the police don't think a crime is happening.

  • in reply to DiffidAnt

    I  have seen for 3 year theses people tell my then partner what to do what to say I have many emails from police saying its crime many times they asking her personal question including how much money she gets in benefits also asking her to do things on titok as doing videos in her underwear say the n word behind a black gentlemen asking her for money she does not have also one thing the did was badly bully one her friends till she nearly took her own life and blame it on her the grooming part was making her feel like she bad and at the time she was having mental breakdown that they used to there advantage    the police have changed and modified claries law and they will not admit to it when clearly I have many emails to so they have as evidence and proof

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  • in reply to DiffidAnt

    I  have seen for 3 year theses people tell my then partner what to do what to say I have many emails from police saying its crime many times they asking her personal question including how much money she gets in benefits also asking her to do things on titok as doing videos in her underwear say the n word behind a black gentlemen asking her for money she does not have also one thing the did was badly bully one her friends till she nearly took her own life and blame it on her the grooming part was making her feel like she bad and at the time she was having mental breakdown that they used to there advantage    the police have changed and modified claries law and they will not admit to it when clearly I have many emails to so they have as evidence and proof

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  • in reply to DiffidAnt

    I done all this when they ask the police the police give them different info and this info is changed and modified 

  • in reply to Daniel Brown

    If you're convinced a crime has occurred, try the independent office for police conduct. If you make a complaint with them, they can force the police to justify their decisions if they haven't followed the law.

  • in reply to DiffidAnt

    I done all this and police dont listen I been treated like crap not to say anything as they screwed up also with the claires law for them to tell the truth as i told 4 different stories about this

  • in reply to Daniel Brown

    Hi, I'm going to make a few suggestions to you.

    Firstly, I'm still somewhat confused about the course of events. I'd suggest creating a timeline or diary, if you haven't already, in which you set out each incident, and any supporting documentation. This should be as factual as possible, so that anyone reading it can see precisely what is being alleged, without any personal opinion. Specify which individuals are involved in each incident.

    Secondly, think about other agencies you can approach. Many of the things you describe sound unpleasant, but are not obviously crimes. So for example, it isn't a crime to ask someone how much they are getting in benefits, or to suggest that someone should create on-line videos in their underwear (assuming they are an adult). Compile the diary, send it to the police, and if they still don't assess that a crime has been committed, try, for example, social services, or another service that helps potentially vulnerable people. They might be better placed to help.

    Thirdly, how do you want Claire's law to be used? My understanding of that is that a person can ask the police if their partner or former partner has a history of domestic violence, but you said you were worried about your own partner.