My best friend! Do you have a special relationship with a pet?

This guy makes me laugh every day. 

Every damned day.

He doesn't judge me, and he just wants to be with me. 

His trust and loyalty are total. 

When he walks off the lead, usually on the beach, he looks back at me every 15 seconds.  Not with absolute timing precision, but not far off.  

He loves 'training games' and is extremely well trained and obedient (but I don't do show-off 'party tricks' or enter him in competitions - if I tell him to do something, or not to do it, there'll be a reason, even if the reason is training). 

And here's the really weird thing.  I can give him entirely new instructions, which he's never heard before, and he'll quite often understand it, and do it.  Clearly not long, convoluted sentences but short commands including one idea.  If he doesn't understand, he lets me know - standing, front legs slightly apart, staring at me intently, head on one side, furrowed brow.

I think we're only just beginning to understand what the relationship with dogs can do for us.  Our previous dog (looked very similar but was very different in character) worked as a Therapy Dog for years, specialising in Autistic children.  She could pick someone on the spectrum out of a crowd.

Those of us with ASD spend a lot of time focusing on our inability to understand people, or be understood by them. 

I don't have that issue with this guy.

I just don't.  

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  • I absolutely adore my 7 year old cat, Winnie. She is my best friend and I always talk about her whenever I can. 

    She always knows whenever I am feeling low and as soon as I get home from work, get up in the morning, or I am at home all day, she is with me. If she can't see me then she will meow constantly and will run towards me when she has found me. She gets on well with my parents as well - including my Dad now who she was scared of before - she was a rescue and we think beaten up by a large male as she's always been wary of them, but she's OK with my Dad now.

    I love her to pieces and will always have a cat in my life. I like dogs, but they are a bit too dependent on me. I get my 'doggie fix' at work where I see loads of dogs on their walks around the reserve where I work.

    Mweekie xx

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