Plastic

Dear All

I know that some of you have been asking about Plastic.  I am beyond broken to say that after a really hard fought battle he passed away at about 2:00am this morning.  He did not suffer.

Our daughter and I now face a very different future but we will continue as he wanted us to do. 

Mrs Plastic

  • RIP Plastic and deepest condolences to his family and friends.

  • Peace Plastic & Mrs Plastic & Daughter of Plastic.

    I've never before felt the loss of person I've met only virtually - I've not been on NAS for long, but he managed to touch me.

  • So sorry to hear this news. I will miss him so much.

  • Hello Mrs Plastic and SkrivksSharpEyed,

    I am very sorry to read about your dearest. I joined not long ago and have been away a while. Plastic was always there to help me through my first days here. Always kind and a jolly word. I'm very sorry. Take care.

  • I did not know plastic nor he me, but his posts were what kept me coming back to this forum and it does seem different without his presence, not a good different.

    I'm sorry I do not know what to say to his loved ones left behind.

  • Hi all,

    Just messaging as we've temporarily lost access to the Plastic account. It won't let us log in!

    The mods are trying very hard to sort it out for us, but for the time being, if anyone has any desperate messages or anything then my inbox is open and email alerts are on. I believe if this continues then my mother (Mrs Plastic) may be making an account as well.


  • Sorry, I have absokutely no idea how to quote on here and I'm on mobile

    All I know as using a lap-top is to do a copy-to-paste 'highlight' of the text which then involves a quote icon and then tap or click:



     ~ for anybody who might wish to use quotations, which I am rather dependent on as it helps me not to have to keep on scrolling up and down whilst ~ hopefully at least ~ keeping in accordance with what the original poster has written.

    Also for those learning about using the quote function ~ the emoji images normally prevent one's reply from successfully loading on the page with this website forum set-up.


    On that note, I'm not sure I'll take up contributing here at all. Despite being painfully on the spectrum in many regards, he always described me as 'Aspie lite'. I know answers to many issues people face here, but struggle to identify with them in any way. Got a bit too good at playing the NT game!

    Of course ~ absolutely. I just wanted to make you feel welcome and in addition now state that those of us who have known Plastic since and after his first posts ~ well we know something of you as your father has written about you a little bit, and indirectly also in his advice to parents and people of about your own age ~ so in one sense your writings here are very much appreciated and soothing in these heart-string snapping and painfully recoiling times, and of course we are concerned for you and your mother as such also. 

    At least know that as an "aspie-light" or heavy-weight social camouflage and personal mask type in the neurotypical 'whirled' of social affairs ~ you have inherited a place in our hearts ~ whether you 'lurk' here from time to time, or else you follow your path wherever it leads and needs you elsewhere to be. 


    Only reason I mentioned providing evidence was really because anyone could wander along and claim they're related to him, haha! I'm glad everyone has trusted me on my word.

    Well for most people on the spectrum we just take people as they are, or else just wish we could ~ and for those of us like myself who take things very literally, or else or also have a strong sense of equality or justice ~ words are our bond with reality and therefore our collective unity and purpose, to bring about better outcomes and achieve greater efficiencies and all that.


    I am however really happy to hear that his posts should remain intact. The disappearing of the knowledge he shared if that all went too would've been a real loss.

    All safe and sound along along with everybody else's shared history. :-)


    Speaking of rockets, we've bought a statue of the Saturn V from the NASA Johnson Space Centre gift shop to remember him by. Only thing is it didn't list any dimensions...hoping it isn't life size!

    Blimey and cripes factor ten ~ just in case ~ if you have not already ~ it could be mission critical to get something like one of these box sets too 'to go along with it' then:



    ;-)


  • Dear Mrs Plastic, I offer my deepest condolences to you and your daughter. I'm a relatively new moderator here, but his advice was thoughtful and he will be missed in the online community. I wish you can find some peace in this difficult time. 

    Best wishes,

    Anna Mod

  • Saturn V makes me think of the Inspiral Carpets. Slight smile

  • (Sorry, I have absokutely no idea how to quote on here and I'm on mobile Sweat smile
    )

    To clarify on this being his space, I meant more in the sense of privacy and respect for a community he'd found himself. I wouldn't want to horn in on his racket, in the same way that I wouldn't have wanted him to horn in on the social medias i use. This was a place where he could go and help people and talk to others like himself - a safe space, if you will. It would've felt like intruding if I started contributing too. Sometimes you need a space that nobody else sees unless you show them.

    On that note, I'm not sure I'll take up contributing here at all. Despite being painfully on the spectrum in many regards, he always described me as 'Aspie lite'. I know answers to many issues people face here, but struggle to identify with them in any way. Got a bit too good at playing the NT game! Joy
    Only reason I mentioned providing evidence was really because anyone could wander along and claim they're related to him, haha! I'm glad everyone has trusted me on my word.

    I am however really happy to hear that his posts should remain intact. The disappearing of the knowledge he shared if that all went too would've been a real loss.

    Speaking of rockets, we've bought a statue of the Saturn V from the NASA Johnson Space Centre gift shop to remember him by. Only thing is it didn't list any dimensions...hoping it isn't life size!  Joy


  • (Totally understand this seems bit odd considering I have never posted, but I always saw this as his space. If anyone is doubting who I am, I can probably find some kind of way to provide proof of who I am.)

    Visiting the site and not posting is not in the least bit odd as some people are very shy and do not want to state anything that might cause offence, or else not be well received, with the most generally recognised term for anonymously observing being called "Lurking". 

    One thing though that your father was quite particular about was that this space was neither his nor anybody else's in particular ~ but rather everyone's to use in respect of being or caring for someone who is autistic, whatever neurological typology one has; and what with being Plastic's daughter ~ I can only imagine you would be very much welcomed by those most fond of him. 

    And the thing about proving who you are really is not viable as the whole point of being a member here is to stay individually anonymous, with the most basic premise being to explore and develop one's sense of individuality along with every one else in a safe and supportive way. 


    Edit: I understand that Plastics account is being terminated. I don't know if that means all his posts will be deleted, but in the case it does, I think something he wrote on here a few months ago needs to be preserved:

    When an account is deleted ~ it usually just means that the ability to log in and change the details and settings of which and so fourth is closed, whilst the actual person's avatar image, user name and posts remain intact as they are for site integrity and thread continuity ~ with the only obvious exceptions to that being when people themselves delete their avatar image and user names or even in some cases the content of their posts so as to no longer be associated with this website of forums any further.

    The quote was an absolutely 'rocketing' good choice for everyone to remember Plastic by though ~ just perfect! Relaxed


  • You're welcome! I don't think I have any members in Herts.

    We support each other as members of the same neurotype, none of the other members of my group knew Plastic as far as I know. I have many members in both Essex and Suffolk and even one or two members in Norfolk. Sadly, I don't believe that I have any members in Herts yet, although if I do acquire any such members then I will let you know :-)

  • The anonymity of living close to London.

    Whenever I lived in Dublin, Belfast and Derry, I was pretty anonymous. But, now, I've become more outgoing; at least, until Covid struck.

    To be honest, I doubt that I'll ever leave Northern Ireland again.

  • Hi, thank you for the offer. I may be interested if you have anyone located more local to Herts, as I am unfortunately nowhere near North Essex / Colchester!

    I don't expect support from anyone there, as I don't know them and I assume few (if any) knew Plastic, but from a purely social perspective if there's anyone close it could be interesting :)

  • My father was killed in the Troubles in 1989. Life without a mentor sucked. But I'm learning on the job. :)

  • I’m incredibly sorry for your loss! It’s good to have you here among us :-) I did mention to your father a while back, I run a social group for autistic women in North Essex, I have nearly 100 members and have many members from the neighbouring counties. We meet weekly; have weekly group video chats and have an active private Facebook group page. If you would like the solidarity of the support of a group of other Autistic/Aspie women, then you are more than welcome to join us. ‘Autistic (ASD) Women in and around Colchester (AWAC)’ or I can PM you the link. 

    Please take comfort from the fact that your father was valued and appreciated by so many on this forum :-)

  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss and offer my deepest condolences. I cannot imagine what it is like to lose a husband, although I did lose my own father to cancer when I was 15. To say that it threw my world into utter chaos for a few years would be a severe understatement. I hope that yourself and your daughter have people around you to support and care for you as you process your loss. Feel free to PM me on here if you wish to talk/sound off/etc. Your husband was a friend to many of us on this forum and his wisdom was always appreciated, I hope that offers some comfort.

  • My condolences to you both, I haven’t been on this forum for long but he seemed a pillar of the online community and will be missed