i'm at my wits end. My bf has as but strongly denies it. We have a new born baby and have only been living together since she was born. I hadn't really recognised it until lately. I have just spent the last half hour reading about as and it has scared me because i realize that there is nothing i can do but put up with his anxiety over trivial matters, his confusion if I don't explain what to do and his inability to look me in the eye or show any signs of affection! This is just the tip of the iceburg of what hes like to live with.