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Feeling alone

Laurensimmo

Not sure if this belongs in this section, but I don’t have anyone else to speak to about this! I have suspected I have Autism for many many years now but like many, my mum doesn’t believe in ‘labels’ (despite being a psychiatric nurse!). My family and partner all agree I have quite a few autistic traits and I have recently put myself forward for a diagnosis which I’m still waiting for. It would explain so so much to me, like why I always felt ‘different’ or ‘weird’ to my peers. However every time I say something about it, for instance a tweet about someone who got diagnosed and their constant fatigue made sense to them (I have been struggling with this since early teens), it’s shrugged off as ‘well that’s normal, that could mean anything, loads of people feel that way’. It’s just really disheartening and makes me feel as if I’m just label or attention seeking. Apologies for the mini rant, just feeling alone and not sure what to do

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  • Hi, Laurensimmo, welcome Slight smile

    I know what you mean. I've felt the need to have people truly listen what I'm trying to describe - listen to me not compare me to the national average! I find it frustrating that people have often said 'that sounds like everyone'.

    I listed out as many clues as I could about the way autism shows up for me in my life and I noticed that if someone else were to experience only one of them in isolation to any of the others, it could be classed as common, 'normal' (hate that word, but can't find a better one!), etc. There were some clues that this would not apply to because they are too unique to autism in my view, but many could have had any number of common causes.

    But when looking at ALL the clues put together, the picture they form is absolutely autism.

    I went through quite a few other diagnoses in the past that could have been better described as autism now I have hindsight. I'm also now wondering if many other people with those same past diagnoses may actually be autistic. E.g. I was unofficially diagnosed as having chronic fatigue at one point. My notes at the time show how painfully intense sensory and social things were at that time in particular. I suspect it was autistic burnout, especially due to my lifestyle and environment that led up to it.

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  • Hi, Laurensimmo, welcome Slight smile

    I know what you mean. I've felt the need to have people truly listen what I'm trying to describe - listen to me not compare me to the national average! I find it frustrating that people have often said 'that sounds like everyone'.

    I listed out as many clues as I could about the way autism shows up for me in my life and I noticed that if someone else were to experience only one of them in isolation to any of the others, it could be classed as common, 'normal' (hate that word, but can't find a better one!), etc. There were some clues that this would not apply to because they are too unique to autism in my view, but many could have had any number of common causes.

    But when looking at ALL the clues put together, the picture they form is absolutely autism.

    I went through quite a few other diagnoses in the past that could have been better described as autism now I have hindsight. I'm also now wondering if many other people with those same past diagnoses may actually be autistic. E.g. I was unofficially diagnosed as having chronic fatigue at one point. My notes at the time show how painfully intense sensory and social things were at that time in particular. I suspect it was autistic burnout, especially due to my lifestyle and environment that led up to it.

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