Are You or Your Children Victimized by Stereotypes?

I find stereotypes so concerning as they prevent autistic people being accepted and understood leading to mistreatment like bullying, verbal or physical, with some even both verbally and physically.

On another autistic community there's autistic people or people pretending to be autistic promoting the stereotypes. People like parents who want to come to an understanding of Autism are likely to believe autistic people making them believe the stereotypes are true. 

One of the most common concerns I see parents have is their children being bullied because of their autism. From what I've seen some people even try to fit the stereotypes once diagnosed with autism, so some have gone from wanting to communicate and interact with others to being introverted because there's the stereotype autistic people are introverted. 

I can safely assume the rejection because of the stereotypes makes autistic children, and even some adults start feeling hopeless, worthless thinking they have no place in this world, I find it so concerning for thwarted belonging leads to suicidal thoughts.

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  • Stereotypes I hate:

    1. Autistic people don't really want social interaction with others.
    2. All autistic people are shy / introverted
    3. Autism is just a sensory thing, give them headphones and they'll be fine
    4. Autistic people aren't capable of complex verbal interaction, they can't be witty or erudite.
    5. Autistic people are all asexual and do not want / need sex lives.
    6. Autistic people don't have strong emotion, they're like Vulcans etc.
    7. Autistic people do not care about others wellbeing.
    8. Autistic people are all maths nerds ... I mean I am, but autistic peoples special interests can be almost anything.
    9. Autistic people all have low / average intelligence but never high.
  • great rreply. made me cry actually cause i'm still discovering myself. i'm 21 and for me i was so different in school to everyone i just never had a true social identity, it was a mixture of people mis interpreting me and of me masking the "behaviours"; not a happy place to be. but hearing about positives does change the narrative on myself 

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  • great rreply. made me cry actually cause i'm still discovering myself. i'm 21 and for me i was so different in school to everyone i just never had a true social identity, it was a mixture of people mis interpreting me and of me masking the "behaviours"; not a happy place to be. but hearing about positives does change the narrative on myself 

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