Autism and University

Hi, my son will be going to Bristol Uni in Sept to study Computer Science. Any advice, hints or tips for us? I am worried how he will cope physically, mentally and socially. He will be 2 hours away from us so I can’t get to him instantly. Any idea where I can find any basic guides to cooking, cleaning, first aid etc I could work through with him? Thanks in advance

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  • I understand and appreciate your point of view about going to university vs online courses.  But I disagree.

    Going to an actual physical university was for me an experience I that I don't regret.

    Socially, I am retarded.  But I still look back with nostalgia at my university life.

    Advantages were, meeting other students doing the same courses.  Wondering around the campus, an actual library with large, old book collections, travelling there every day, subsidised canteens ( saves on cooking and washing up).

  • Similar here. I got through Uni but I had a miserable time in my second and third years. I pushed myself through it, passed and then had a mental collapse at the end of it. It did teach me the skills of research (not as sharp as I used to be - which is a drag) and ignite a passion to know stuff which, since my diagnosis, has been pretty helpful. 

    Although when I was there mental health was a bit taboo (20-something years ago *cough*)- wasn't the open and frank discussion you get nowadays so my guess (hope?) is the environment and support is much better. From the changes I've seen it work... it's on the right track.